With all due respect....

[M&M Guy]

Originally Posted by 26 Year Gap

Before you shut up, could you repeat your post?

Shut up.

(Oh, wait, not that post?)

[bbcof83]

Originally Posted by Snaqwells

...
FWIW ("For What It's Worth" for those of you over 60), if I write something that offends someone, I prefer to get a private post informing me of my transgression so I can either explain myself or apologize publicly (if appropriate)....

Snaqs, did you attend the Tiger Woods school of PR?

[dsqrddgd909]

Umpref:

I'm a first year official, so I mostly just ask questions or read current threads.

I read three boards at least once every day and sometimes multiple times each day:

1. A Quality Forum

2. A Myrtle Beach Golf Forum

3. This Forum

What do they have in common? Lots of very knowledeable people who are willing to share their expertise, for free. None of them are perfect, not all of the stuff is terrific or on topic, but all three consistently give me a reason to read.

If certain people bother you that much, put them on ignore. I know that some posters are not to my taste, but "so ist das Leben"

[ref3808]

This is my first year and I find this board is always informative, sometimes amusing, and yes every once in a while you read a reply that makes you say OUCH. These boards are communities, some might say families. I have an uncle who irritates me with his politics, offends me with his humor and can generally be a pain. I still invite him to dinner.

[BillyMac]

Originally Posted by ref3808

I have an uncle who irritates me with his politics, offends me with his humor and can generally be a pain. I still invite him to dinner.

Does he try to "tickle" you?

[Freddy]

Originally Posted by dsqrddgd909

Umpref:
I'm a first year official . . . I know that some posters are not to my taste, but "C'est la vie".

The first thing to learn, as a first year official, is NEVER use French on the discussion board. Latin, yes. French, NYET!

[dsqrddgd909]

Originally Posted by Freddy

The first thing to learn, as a first year official, is NEVER use French on the discussion board. Latin, yes. French, NYET!

Freddy, Thanks. I fixed it above.

[Smitty]

This message board is extremely mild compared to many, so be glad you can actually find more useful content than not here. This place is where I learn the most about situations and the different ways to look at the rules.

What I find more annoying than the bantering are the lame attempts at humor and when threads become personal conversations way off topic. There are some people who think they are pretty self-important, but I generally ignore their posts. Overall this is an outstanding resource.

[fullor30]

Originally Posted by Smitty

This message board is extremely mild compared to many, so be glad you can actually find more useful content than not here. This place is where I learn the most about situations and the different ways to look at the rules.

What I find more annoying than the bantering are the lame attempts at humor and when threads become personal conversations way off topic. There are some people who think they are pretty self-important, but I generally ignore their posts. Overall this is an outstanding resource.

I liken it to a corner saloon where you have all types of patrons whose banter is fueled by drink, in our case anonymity, who freely express their views. I appreciate the diversity both in the personalities and the levels of officials here.

I've also noticed more civility towards new officials over the year, where in the past some were intimidating with their responses to the newbies.
I do miss Jurassic, who was always the voice of common sense to me and had alot to offer officials on any level.

[JRutledge]

Originally Posted by Smitty

What I find more annoying than the bantering are the lame attempts at humor and when threads become personal conversations way off topic. There are some people who think they are pretty self-important, but I generally ignore their posts. Overall this is an outstanding resource.

That is going to happen on any board where you have a solid group that is constantly contributing. I have noticed that here, but in other places. You must understand that some people here actually know each other and have known each other on the board (not including real life) for almost 10 years. That is just going to happen. Even the people here that I have had knock down drag out fights with, I have met personally at camps or were people that showed me support when I worked some big assignments. That will never go away even if you wanted it to. You just have to ignore like you said, or participate. At the end of the day, this is a good place to get some information you might not get in many places. But I would suggest that just like any advice, you verify it with the people you work for and take what you can use and throw out what you cannot.

I heard a person talk years ago about picking up pennies. If you can pick up a penny that helps you out and leave the rest there, you have accomplished something. That is all this place should be for most people. You are not going to learn everything about officiating by reading this board or any other board.

Peace

[mbyron]

Originally Posted by Freddy

The first thing to learn, as a first year official, is NEVER use French on the discussion board. Latin, yes. French, NYET!

De gustibus non est disputandum.

Maybe umpref intended his post for the baseball forum.

[BillyMac]

Originally Posted by mbyron

De gustibus non est disputandum.

Illegitimi non carborundum.

Or better: Semper ubi sub ubi.

[Back In The Saddle]

My other favorite is: Quid quid Latine dictum sit altum videtur

[IREFU2]

Originally Posted by umpref

....I was a member here before, primarily in another sport. I left. Why?

Simply because it seems that there are many guys on here that want to play "gotcha" with loaded questions, or use mistakes in grammar to blast somebody as being wrong.

It seems that some around here (no, I will no start naming names) want to argue and nitpick, rather than discuss and educate.

I certainly know how easy it is to fall into the traps of playing "gotcha!" and flame wars. I have certainly been involved with my share of both on other BBS's.

I took a LONG break from BBS's (about a year....forever in internet terms...LOL) and just recently came back here to engage in discussions about basketball, which is a very new sport for me.

I gotta say, I am about ready to leave. It seems that almost every thread turns into a p i s s i n g match!

Guys, if your contributions, EVEN SOME OF THE TIME is nothing more than arguing against somebody, maybe you need a break from this! Seriously! If posting questions, then replying with "gotcha" is something you do more than say once every 3 months or so, maybe it is time for a break. You are obviously missing the spirit of what a BBS is about.

Really, it comes down to the "Golden Rule". Treat others the way you would like to be treated. Maybe as sports officials, I would challenge you to treat others BETTER than you would like to be treated, and BETTER THAN THEY DESERVE! Let's leave the baiting, heckling, and gamesmanship to the coaches! We are supposed to be a team, and not JUST on the field of play.

Can I get a AMEN?

Eat the meat and spit out the bones! Use what you can use and throw out the rest and dont take anything personal.