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The competency of the officials is one matter. A lack of competency by the officials never excuses horsesh!t behavior like that though. Intimidating some very obviously inexperienced officials is hardly something to brag about imo, especially on an officials forum.
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. . . and the free throw line extended.
Sorry for the obviousness of that. New guy I'm mentoring got the first part and forgot the second, banishing everyone above the top of the arc. Or did I miss the point of the response?
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You're an official, you should know better than to act like this, especially from the assistant seat. Officials make mistakes. Maybe these officials weren't ready for a varsity game? Either way, you understand how to approach them in an appropriate manner, yet you chose not to. You even mention that your players were getting a "kick" out of your unsporting behavior. That's a great life-lesson you're teaching those young people Coach.
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Judtech, as others have already mentioned, for the most part your behavior was not appropriate. I certainly understand playing, coaching, and officiating sports can be emotional, but if you notice, the better officials tend to not let their emotions get the better of them during a game. That might be a skill you can hone during your time as the AC. Truthfully, as an official, have you ever changed a call due to comments made by an AC? Also, wouldn't the tone of the comments, or the wording, make you less likely to change a call? Maybe it feels good to say those things, but what else does it accomplish other than provide an adversarial relationship? Have you ever known comments said from the bench during a game to ever improve the competency level of the officials? All things considered, it would provide a better example to the team to be quiet in those instances.
With regard to how you handled the FT issue - you were correct in that your team was able to stand where they were, provided they were standing outside the arc, not on it. However, your interaction with the official probably would've carried more weight had you not made any of the previous, unnecessary comments. You could've also asked him to confer with his partners to make sure he was correct. But were you willing to follow through with having your head coach ejected? What would it REALLY accomplish? (Other than you now get to coach the rest of the game?...How would that fly later on that evening?) What example does that really give the kids? How would that differ from sending a tape to the assignor, while not saying anything during the game itself? Now, maybe you realize this - thus your attendance in the Officials' Confessional. But the real test is whether you actually learn from your mistakes, or if you continue to make the same mistakes going forward. Being professional applies to both officials and coaches, but even more so to ones who happen to be both.
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Officiating such as you have described was one of the main motivations that got me involved in officiating. I have been in games where the officiating was not up to snuff and I managed to restrain myself until I could get a private moment with the aberrant official after the game. I find your actions thoroughly detestable. Shame, Shame, Shame on you. You missed a chance to be a positive influence on that ref. I really question your character to have the chutzpah to come here bragging about berating and humiliating a fellow official. I am embarrassed by and for you. How would you explain this escapade to your association leadership?
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Had I been calling the game, your wife would have gotten the first T of the night and you would hav gotten the second. No way in the world I am going to put up with that kind of behavior from a HC, much less an assistant.
Bad enough that you did it; really bad that you "brag" about it and extremely bad since you are an official as well. Ask yourself this question. How long would you have tolerated that behavior from an AC had you been officiating the game? You might not have missed those calls but you would have done something the coaches did not like. Poor behavior IMHO - very poor. |
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This is kinda what I was thinking reading through the OP......
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