stupid kid; stupid parent

[7IronRef]

Originally Posted by bainsey

Not profanity? True. Not disrespectful? Disagree. There are plenty of parents in my area -- myself included -- that wouldn't back their 6th grader for talking to an official like that.

It was under his breath, the official asked for a repeat (baited), basically knowing that if kid repeated he would T him. The official baited a 6th grader, come on.

The comment and under his breath aspect of if is not disrespectful in my opinion. There are other ways to handle this situation, advise the player or coach in some way so that they know they are about to cross the line (yours, not mine).

If that is your interpretation on every comment made under one's breath, you will have a difficult time being consistent in calling it during games and in calling your children on it. Good luck penalizing everyone of them.

[bainsey]

Originally Posted by 7IronRef

If that is your interpretation on every comment made under one's breath...

It isn't. Read the entire post.

[7IronRef]

Originally Posted by bainsey

It isn't. Read the entire post.

I did. You quoted my comment about it not being disrespectful. Your reference to profanity is in regard to a diff situation. Under one's breath and the statement the player made is hardly worthy of a TF and is difficult to remain consistent on.

[Welpe]

Originally Posted by 7IronRef

Under one's breath and the statement the player made is hardly worthy of a TF and is difficult to remain consistent on.

In your opinion.

Unsporting technical fouls are always going to have a high degree of judgment involved and should take into account the particular Roman province you call games, the level, temperature of the game, etc. I have a hard time criticizing a fellow official for issuing a technical foul without being there.

[fullor30]

Originally Posted by Welpe

In your opinion.

Unsporting technical fouls are always going to have a high degree of judgment involved and should take into account the particular Roman province you call games, the level, temperature of the game, etc. I have a hard time criticizing a fellow official for issuing a technical foul without being there.

Well said.

[bainsey]

Originally Posted by 7IronRef

I did. You quoted my comment about it not being disrespectful. Your reference to profanity is in regard to a diff situation.

I said, the entire post. You missed the line above regarding under one's breath.

I'll give far more leeway to a high school player than to a sixth grader regarding under-one's-breath comments. A sixth grader will get no leeway at all. I'd also go right to a T, even if it were under his breath.

Ultimately, though, Welpe summed it up nicely. Mostly, these are HTBT situations.

[7IronRef]

Thanks for offering of opinions as always. I accept that people see it differently and I agree with HTBT, but the OP presented it for discussion, the context is what was stated.

Not that it matters, but I really am an official (level does not matter, but if you need to know, you can PM me).

For those of you that said this is a TF, good luck calling it consistently and stop baiting 6th graders.

[fullor30]

Originally Posted by 7IronRef

Thanks for offering of opinions as always. I accept that people see it differently and I agree with HTBT, but the OP presented it for discussion, the context is what was stated.

Not that it matters, but I really am an official (level does not matter, but if you need to know, you can PM me).

For those of you that said this is a TF, good luck calling it consistently and stop baiting 6th graders.

You're right, it doesn't matter, enjoy third graders telling you "you suck"

[Adam]

Originally Posted by 7IronRef

It was under his breath, the official asked for a repeat (baited), basically knowing that if kid repeated he would T him. The official baited a 6th grader, come on.

The comment and under his breath aspect of if is not disrespectful in my opinion. There are other ways to handle this situation, advise the player or coach in some way so that they know they are about to cross the line (yours, not mine).

If that is your interpretation on every comment made under one's breath, you will have a difficult time being consistent in calling it during games and in calling your children on it. Good luck penalizing everyone of them.

Sorry, but if I can hear it, it's not under his breath. This comment is going to be a T from me in any game I work (I don't work college), getting his fifth foul doesn't give him a free pass. 6th grade game? It would be in the top five easiest calls I've ever made.

Do you really think Dad would have reacted different if the OP had just gone straight to the T? No, Dad just wanted the opportunity to tell the refs how bad he thought they sucked.

And as for the "Ts are supposed to make the game better" canard, Rich addressed it pretty well. Ts are not supposed to make the game better, they're supposed to punish unsporting behavior. They normally make the game better, but if they don't, that doesn't diminish the validity of the T.

[BktBallRef]

Originally Posted by Snaqwells

Sorry, but if I can hear it, it's not under his breath.

Exactly. Was going to write this myself when I saw you had beaten me to it.

[7IronRef]

Originally Posted by Snaqwells

Sorry, but if I can hear it, it's not under his breath. This comment is going to be a T from me in any game I work (I don't work college), getting his fifth foul doesn't give him a free pass. 6th grade game? It would be in the top five easiest calls I've ever made.

I don't care what level anyone works, there is NO WAY you call this every time - you cannot be consistent under the context that this situation was presented. Did you ever play the game?!

Do you really think Dad would have reacted different if the OP had just gone straight to the T? No, Dad just wanted the opportunity to tell the refs how bad he thought they sucked.

I could care less what a parent thinks, their POV is distorted. The OP should have ignored the parent after the game, or simply told the parent it is between the officials and the player, ask your player. Engaging a parent is not going to help things and your have opened the door for further comment whether you intended to or not. It is possible the parent thought his player used more colorful language and was going to talk with his kid, but when he got an explaination, he disagreed. But again, it is his problem.

And as for the "Ts are supposed to make the game better" canard, Rich addressed it pretty well. Ts are not supposed to make the game better, they're supposed to punish unsporting behavior. They normally make the game better, but if they don't, that doesn't diminish the validity of the T.

Agreed, but in the context of the OP this is not a top 5 easiest call on unsporting behavior. That is a difficult standard to maintain.

[Adam]

Originally Posted by 7IronRef

Agreed, but in the context of the OP this is not a top 5 easiest call on unsporting behavior. That is a difficult standard to maintain.

Then we don't agree. If I was the OP, I would have gone straight to the T. I can tell you that this comment, if I hear it, is a T every time; especially in this context. I'm calling this every time in a high school game.

If you think ringing up an 11 year old for this is over officiating, then we're not going to agree.

[BktBallRef]

Originally Posted by 7IronRef

Did you ever play the game?!

Sounds like something an idiot fan would ask.

What a stupid remark.

[Adam]

Originally Posted by BktBallRef

Sounds like something an idiot fan would ask.

What a stupid remark.

Do to a formatting error, I missed that one. I'm doubting at this point whether 7iron is an actual official.

My answer: yes, so?

[fullor30]

Originally Posted by Snaqwells

Do to a formatting error, I missed that one. I'm doubting at this point whether 7iron is an actual official.

My answer: yes, so?

Can I join the club?