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@JRutledge
Why are you changing up the example of the play? How did a play with three tenths of a second remaining where there's a field goal attempt all of a sudden turn into a question of "continuous motion"? In all honestly, are you actually reading my posts or are you creating straw man posts to address the issues you personally have and imposing them on me? Like where are these toxic statements coming from: Quote:
@Adam Again, some understood the question, and some did not, and some like you are giving an incomplete answer. I don't see why the play that I had would not be one where I would go up to my partner as I addressed your reasons before this thread turned sour for a couple of pages. I'm hoping that it be possible for this forums users to share their reasons in a principled and logical fashion rather than using personal attacks like JRutledge did above as I'm willing to continue this discussion respectfully. If you don't like that I've disagreed with you, that's on you. @Bob You obviously understood my question. I'm addressing those who have focused on one aspect of the play that I personally had in such a critical fashion that they're going as far as making it nearly an absolutist position to not confer with their partner just for the sake of indicating how wrong I really was. How this is a principled position I don't know, which is why I'm still posting in this thread to find out. About my personal play, yes, I got what I needed in the play; it was my overbearing attitude that was the reason why I was at fault which needs to be changed the next time I choose to confer with my partner. And since I am only talking about this one play that I went up to my partner rather than describing my situation as trying to correct every mistake I believe my partner made during the game, it should be safe to assume that I understand that conferring with your partner is to be done during those rare times during the game where one believes it would be prudent to do so. But that again comes down to the official's judgment and not on an absolutist rule that every time I believe my partner made a mistake that I'm always going up to him or never going up to him. As I indicated, I don't believe that I was wrong in believing it was a prudent moment to go up to my partner, but rather a poor approach where I should have come in more respectfully. Now I'm trying to find out why this is still not satisfactory from those who have been extremely critical of me as well as seeking advice from officials who are willing to confer with their partner on those rare calls in how to do it properly and with respect. Last edited by Afrosheen; Mon Oct 28, 2013 at 09:51am. |
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They're not unrelated as they go to the central point of my question: How to address a partner who may have possibly kicked a rule or did not have information that you definitively have.
Read the original post JRutledge. |
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And if I spent my time always worrying about if a partner kicked a rule on their calls, I would have to question them several times a game and I am not doing that at all. I certainly would have to do it with traveling, double dribble and closely guarded several times a game, even when a call was not actually made if I use your logic. Peace
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As far your worries, then I don't know what to tell you. Conferring with your partner is still a judgment call as I believe it is up to the officials to understand when it is prudent to approach your partner on a possibly botched call. And in this thread there is evidence of such a play shown on video. Though if you don't think it is ever prudent, then that's on you. But to tell me that I'm wrong merely based on the latter is foolish. Last edited by Afrosheen; Mon Oct 28, 2013 at 09:59am. |
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I did not say anything about it was never prudent to come to a partner. Not only do I go to partners on calls they ask for help, I have gone to them when I see the entire play. Unlike you I come with definitive information, not questions. This is also something I talk about in pre-game every time. Did you do that in your situations?
And BTW, I have had officials come to me on a BC violation a few times and usually they are asking questions of things they did not see, like coming to me saying, "The ball was tipped." Well that is great, but what the hell does that question have to do with who was the first to touch the ball in the BC and the last to touch the ball in the FC? Absolutely nothing. And in those case at least the official that said something had some dual area. You had no dual area in your insistence you were doing the right thing. I had a situation last year where I was the New Trail on a press coverage defense and a pass was thrown to the middle of the court and the Center called a BC violation that involved multiple touches of the ball. The coach wanted me to change the call and my answer to him was simple, "He is standing right there, neither you or I saw what he saw." I was no where near the division line or the play and if I questioned his call that would have been the wrong thing to do considering I had no information or anything to add. The official was a playoff officials with similar experience I had and if he did not know the rule, nothing I could do in that situation to do to help him. And I am pretty confident he knew the rule. And I told the coach, if you want an explanation, "Ask him when he gets over here, I am sure he will tell you what he saw." We did not hold up the game, we did not need to discuss the play on the court. We did discuss the play in the locker room (like I told you to do) and he confirmed what he saw and why it was a violation. Actually my partner confirmed what I already knew. I guess you feel I should tell him how much more I know than him, even with the fact I did not see the play in question. Peace
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Still I will go up to my partner when he possibly kicked a rule. For instance, in my first year of officiating I called a ten second count in the backcourt during the girls game. If my partner did not come up to me and tell me there isn't a ten second count in girls, it would have been a situation where my ego, pride, self-respect added insult to injury as my ignorance of the rules was not corrected because my partner did not want to "offend" me. Screw that. If I'm ignorant of something, whether it's the rules or anything definitive that my partner saw, I'm more than willing to consider what he has to say if he wants to confer. And thus vice a versa. That's how it should be. Check your egos at the door, this is a basketball game, and you're the officials whose purpose is to maintain the integrity of the game. Quote:
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@Adam
And as far your question as what made it indicative is that this ref is inexperienced, with three years under his belt, with a history of irresponsible behavior. But as an assignor, I'd like to give people opportunities to learn from their mistakes and grow as people. If you also want to include that as legitimate to criticize by all means go ahead, but I'm starting to get a sense of the type of person you are. Last edited by Adam; Mon Oct 28, 2013 at 02:34pm. Reason: content |
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Frankly, this is the first I've read that this particular official has been a problem. It explains why you would assume it was a rule error rather than a judgment disagreement. It also explains why you were cheating up (an assumption from your earlier description of your positioning on the play) a bit to keep your eye on a play so far out of your primary. We've all been there with partners who have demonstrated incompetence. I would ask, though, whether this official had previously demonstrated inadequate rules knowlege, or just "irresponsible behavior" (a fairly vague term).
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BUT I'm of the mind that his maturity depends in part how I respect him, and unfortunately that was violated during my last game with him. So having realized that I want to know how to better respect an official despite our different experience and knowledge of the game. |
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That, unfortunately, sometimes comes from guessing incorrectly.
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That seems to be your M.O. while you whine incessantly about anybody who questions anything you do. And it's really professional to assign an irresponsible official to an AAU game or any game, since you said all games are of equal importance.
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