Unapproachable Coach vs. Unapproachable Ref

[Tio]

I like what Jeff Pea said, to add to it I find that when you engage the kid and explain that you need his help. Most of the time, the kids are just excited to be heading into the game and dont' realize what they are doing.

If you clearly have a bad citizen who is intentionally defying you....

Try this... Don't let the kid come into the game at the given deadball. I promise, he will properly report the next time.