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Old Wed Oct 25, 2006, 06:10pm
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No-brainer. Bail.

You're in a no-win situation if you do that game.
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Old Wed Oct 25, 2006, 06:14pm
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Don't put yourself in that position - there are plenty of other games for you to do. No one might know now, but someone, somewhere down the line will find out.
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Old Wed Oct 25, 2006, 06:59pm
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Watch the kid play, from the stands.
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Old Wed Oct 25, 2006, 07:24pm
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thanks for the info! I will call assignor tomorrow and reassign.
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Old Wed Oct 25, 2006, 07:47pm
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Let me be the voice of experience...I did this once when my son was a 10 yr. old playing Rec ball. HUGE Mistake. To show the coaches I was unbiased, I was very tough on my son, who was one of the better players on the team. He sensed it...held back...and they lost the game. My wife in the stands sensed what I was doing too and I got an earful on the car ride home. Not to mention the grumbling she heard from other parents. Nobody won in that sitch. I haven't done it since...and our local assn. forces us to scratch teams where we have a child attending a school...even if they don't play a team sort.
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Old Wed Oct 25, 2006, 07:50pm
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Let me be the voice of experience...I did this once when my son was a 10 yr. old playing Rec ball. HUGE Mistake. To show the coaches I was unbiased, I was very tough on my son, who was one of the better players on the team. He sensed it...held back...and they lost the game. My wife in the stands sensed what I was doing too and I got an earful on the car ride home. Not to mention the grumbling she heard from other parents. Nobody won in that sitch. I haven't done it since...and our local assn. forces us to scratch teams where we have a child attending a school...even if they don't play a team sort.
...So close to my son's JV game. So close !
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Old Wed Oct 25, 2006, 09:08pm
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No way. Send it back. Most of the assignors in my area will not let you ref teams if you teach there, coach there, work there or have kids actively attending.

Dont do it.
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Old Thu Oct 26, 2006, 07:00am
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and our local assn. forces us to scratch teams where we have a child attending a school...even if they don't play a team sort.
I wish our Assn did have that policy. However I took it upon myself to scratch myself from any boys' games involving my son's HS. He's a freshman and may not even make the team this year.

If my son were to be cut I don't want to give the coach a chance to say I'm trying to screw his team to get even.
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Old Thu Oct 26, 2006, 07:41am
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If my son were to be cut I don't want to give the coach a chance to say I'm trying to screw his team to get even.
...or worse...if he DOES make it, then you're there just to make calls in favor of his team...or you had an agreement with the coach..."My son makes it and I'll take care of the calls in your games". The kid will never have made it on his own merit in most onlookers minds.

I can't understand how any H.S level association would allow an official anywhere near a game involving their child.
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Old Thu Oct 26, 2006, 09:38am
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I wish our Assn did have that policy. However I took it upon myself to scratch myself from any boys' games involving my son's HS. He's a freshman and may not even make the team this year.

If my son were to be cut I don't want to give the coach a chance to say I'm trying to screw his team to get even.
I knew you had kids, but I didn't realize you had a son that old! Can he beat you yet?
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Old Sun Oct 29, 2006, 10:49am
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I wish our Assn did have that policy. However I took it upon myself to scratch myself from any boys' games involving my son's HS. He's a freshman and may not even make the team this year.

If my son were to be cut I don't want to give the coach a chance to say I'm trying to screw his team to get even.
I don't do games at my son's high school and he doesn't even play basketball. I have all the games I need at other schools and don't need the potential of the other team or worse, our school's parents feeling I "favored" one team or the other. Now in the CYO middle and Jr High league I do games from my other son's school but not his team. I filled in once when only one official showed for the game and have heard about it ever since from my son.

Funny part is he now is officiating youth soccer and now knows what his dad goes through. He is much more understanding now. He does have more of a short leash than I. I'm afraid for coaches next year as he plans on getting his basketball license. The "T's" will fly.
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Old Wed Oct 25, 2006, 09:26pm
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thanks for the info! I will call assignor tomorrow and reassign.
Wise decision.
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