Coach: Warning or ejection?

[wadeintothem]

Sounds to me like that IS "how things go" in your local league. With you description, ie its common, no certified umps, etc I doubt you will receive any semblance of support if you needed it. Our local beer league is very much the same way, which is why I no longer work it.

Dont take too much BS unless you want to.

Be ready to walk when/if you find out you are expected to take their BS.