VB game last night.  Tied with less 15 seconds to go.  V1 drives lanes and charges into H1. Pretty easy PC call. As I am going to report foul, V2 comes up to me, gets fairly close into my face (doesn't touch me) and says "Bulls**t" to me. Pretty loud in the gym but I'm almost positive on what was said to me.   So I T'd him up.  Needless to say, Home team won.  After game, vistor's head coach comes up and notes that the player was just asking what the call was.  I told him that if I had heard it wrong, I apologize, but part of the reason the T was given was because of his aggressive nature towards me when I was trying to report foul.
I wondering if I should handled this differently due to nature of game?  I know players verbally abusing officials should not be tolerated but what about physically aggression? Let me know what you think.
Thanks