Officiating a Team You Formerly Coached

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Originally Posted by Eckley

I'm a first year official who has officiated 30 games so far this season. I would like to think I'm progressing and I, of course, have a great deal of veteran officials to thank. Last night I officiated a boys' 8th grade game involving a team I coached last year. I didn't coach any of the players since they were 7th graders last year. I don't believe (and neither did my partner feel) that I showed any bias toward my former team in any of my calls but, of course, the fans of the opposing team, naturally, felt differently. I ignored their comments as well as the opposing coach who said something like "Your last six calls were for white!" Nevermind that his team was undisciplined and, frankly, terrible. In my roundabout way, I'm asking, how do you handle officiating a game involving a team you formerly coached? Like I said, I believe I called a fair game, but, in the future, should I turn down the opportunity to officiate games involving my former team? Any thoughts will be appreciated.

We are in the perception is reality business. I wouldn't take a game there for a year or two....just me. That said, I actually reffed my daughter's lower level game in another sport a few years back. I don't regret it as it was a Daddy/ daughter moment, but the other coach figured out that I was a 'homer' in her opinion. It won't happen again. I don't do games at my kids high school even though they are gone, I know too many people.