Had this been B'ball, what would you have done

[Adam]

"Take her out" is, at best, taunting and intimidating. If it sounded like I'm reading it (and it seems like it did from your follow up post), then it's a direct threat towards the girl.
I'm calling a T, and addressing the issue with both benches with a warning that anything resembling taunting or retribution will be deemed a flagrant T. I officiate basketball, not WWE.