[JRutledge]

If you were not on the game, the only thing I think you could do is report the incident to the AD and maybe the Principle to the school. Let them know that you overheard the comments about the Referee and make a comment about the lack of sportsmanship you witnessed. In my state a report to the state would probably not do anything. I would give the school officials a chance to respond or deal with an issue they might not be aware of. The coach might not be totally aware of what was said.

If I was an official on the game, I would address the "take her out" comment. I would not T that right off the bat. It is possible that the comment alone was just a naive comment and did not mean much. But I was not there so it is hard to tell.

Peace