Three comments on this.
First, if I were working the game, and a coach yelled "take her out" from the bench, I'm whacking him. No question. There's an obvious difference between "FOUL!" at the end of a game, and "Take her out". That's obviously unsportsmanlike, IMO.
Second, I really don't understand why people are saying that your only recourse is to go to the coach or the AD. Why is that your only recourse? You can't write an official game report to send to the state, but you can certainly write a letter voicing your concerns to the state's governing body. Anybody can do that, right? If this was a pattern, I would think that would be entirely appropriate.
Third, this is post number
6,000 for me!!
