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[KJUmp]

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Glad to see you're working many diferent types of softball...and many different age groups. I've been at this a lot of years, and I can tell you with a great deal of certainty that if you can handle adult ballplayers effectively both during the game and during those "explosive moments" you can pretty much handle the egos/temperments of players and coaches at any other level. No one can "loose it" any better than an adult softball player...and I've had some classics over 25+ years. But it does make you tough and prepares you for pretty much anything that can be thrown at you.
I think you'll find your 4th season to really be a good one, as now you can fall back on 3 years of on field experiences and situations (and in 3 years you've seen a lot...not everything, but a lot) to help you continue to develop into a cool, calm, confident, professional umpire. One who can work a good consistent game, take the heat, and handle the tough situations when they arise.
I'm sure you've gotten loads of good advice from the veteran umps in your association. I'll leave you with one bit advice that was passed onto me a long time ago from a veteran guy and over the years has stood me in good stead..
When you walk on the field, when the coaches/players see you, their internal reaction should be..."I'm glad we got this guy working our game. He's knows his stuff, he hustles, and he takes charge of the game without being overbearing....and when the s**t hits the fan he doesn't lose his cool and shows some backbone and guts."
Good luck to you...have a great sesaon!
KJump