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When you say rec ball are these kids games or adult league? Flag or tackle? If this kind of behavior is being exhibited in front of kids, the league or rec department needs to roll some heads.
Sounds like your rec department has a major problems if they don't clamp down on this kind of behavior. From the descriptions you've given so far, it sounds like you working little more than a zoo. We call youth football here. The coaches, are for the most part, well-meaning volunteers, most who know little about what they're doing, much less the rules. However, while they may argue some out of ignorance, usually they'll clam up long before we have to use the nuclear option. As you progress, you'll find the arguments more intelligent, the comments wittier and cutting. The key to survival on the wing is ignore what you can, flag what you must. Anything directed at you personally should earn the flag-cursing or questioning your integrity. Now if the coach says "d---mmit" you might just let that go. If he says "d--- you" then he's gone personal. Questioning what you saw isn't questioning your integrity. Your eyesight, maybe, your judgment, sure. Most coaches just want to vent and once you've heard enough about it, there's nothing wrong with saying "Ok coach, I've heard you". That's usually enough to get them to move on to the next topic. |
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I am a FB coach who took up basketball offiating several years ago. It has actually made me better FB coach as I now do not "ride" officials much. Talk with them, yes, but ride them no.
It wasn't always that way. My first year many moons ago, after a TD run by the opposition on which I felt an illegal block below the waist had occurred, I commented "It you don't throw the flag at some point, someone is going to get hurt." Must have been loud because the WH threw the flag and came over to inform me what I had won. I walked to midfield and awaited the kickoff. As the wing ran past me, I said, "You still haven't thrown yours." Two minutes later, as I sat in the lockeroom awaiting the end of the game, I contemplated my mistake. I haven't had flag since in the rest of my years on the sideline. Did I deserve to be booted? Probably not. Should I have kept my mouth shut? Yep. Did it teach me a lesson? Oh yeah. Embarrassment can do that. Last edited by jkohls; Tue May 19, 2009 at 07:35pm. |
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In that vein JKohls, I was working a non-conference game last year or so where the visiting teams' QB paraded by the home sideline with his #1 finger triumphantly in the air and had some choice words to his hosts after they had scored a TD. The WH promptly flagged the USC and ejected Mr. Visiting QB for taunting.
From that moment on, any bit of exuberence displayed by the home team resulted in Mr. Visiting Headman hollering "excessive celebration, excessive celebration!" Finally after a play he steps onto the field and yells "Where's the flag??!! I landed a beauty at his feet and said "right there coach". He was much relieved when I told the WH, "Nah, make it a sideline warning". He got my message and backed off. |
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A coach can't argue with himself, at least not to the point of gaining an advantage, and he's not allowed on the field unless you give him permission. Coaches can make it hard, sometimes, to completely ignore them, but doing so can eliminate a lot of unnecessary agita and is worth the effort. Bear in mind you are in absolute control over when the situation changes from totally ignoring what is said, to scrutinizing every word, so if magic words appear, you control over your hearing them. Football tends to raise emotions at times causing out of place spontaneous reactions that usually dissapate quickly. As long as they're not excessive, really inflamatory or have become repeated, simply ignoring them is often the best way to deal with them. If they persist, repeat or become excessive those things can be dealt with using existing tools. A coach looking to argue with an official is an example of bringing a knife to a gun fight and you'll gain more respect by resisting to participate than shooting someone who allowed his emotions to get him in over his head. |
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I will say, a coach deserves a little explanation, but not a conversation. The rules equip him with the right to request what we call a coach-referee conference, it just costs him a timeout, unless he is right. |
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As the WH, if a coach wants an explanation I will ask the wing on his side to give it to him at an opportune time. If he insists on speaking to me, I tell the wing that he is welocme to call a time out and come out on the field otherwise the game shall continue. If he calls the time out he may question the ruling and he will be given the proper explanation. If we misaplied the rule the time out will be charged as an official's time out. If he is wrong he will be charged with a time out. If he is out of time outs he will be assessed a delay of game penalty. If he wishes to argue or dispute a call as opposed to asking a question about the rule, the time out ends and he will be requested to return to his sideline.
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