Coach refuses to shake hands

[JRutledge]

Originally Posted by Ed Maeder

I also have been around long enough to not care what they ultimately think. So why do you care if they shack your hand or not. I have worked into a very good working relationship with most coaches and players throughout the years and a lot of that is by earning their respect. Not by doing what I please on the court or field, but by doing what is best for the game. We agree to disagree.

I think unprofessional behavior needs to be addressed. If you wish to not say anything I am fine with that fact. Just like you are not looking for my approval, I am certainly not looking for your approval off this situation. But I am going to likely say something at some point. We all do not do the same things anyway. We are not robots. We are individuals and there is a reason some individuals get to certain levels and others never get a shot. And even out of those individuals that are successful, you will hear a lot of different approaches with the same ultimate results. Just look at a guy like Jim Burr and Tim Higgins. Two totally different approaches but similar overall officiating success.

And I do not care to work with coaches. They are there to coach, not to tell me how to do my job. If they do not understand that fact, I will let them know. My goal is to call the game the right way that is asked of us by rules and philosophy, not to please a coach. Again, they need me much more than I need them. I will be onto the next game very soon and not have them the rest of the season. And if I have them later, they know where I stand. There is a reason in most cases when I have a coach one time, I do not have to deal with their crap the next time.

Peace