I posted my woes on here last season and it lead to a pretty decent discussion on the matter. Incidentally, the largest chapter in this area has gone from one of the most disorganized cluster youknowwhats to one of the better organized ones. A lot of that had to do with the voting in of new leadership and the willingness of the membership to improve it.
The politics will eat you up if you let it. I've come to grips with that in basketball...I'm still getting there with football.
Work on what you can control. Contribute what you can and work to make changes. Grand sweeping changes are rare, gradual changes in direction are much more common and feasible. You have to have patience to play the game if that's what you want to do.
Rut is also dead on. This isn't a basketball thing. I have seen similar things in other organizations not having anything to do with officiating.