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Ideally I would like to agree with you but in reality that's just not practical. The only people I consider coaches during a game I work are the ones on the bench. Plus I'm not sure what the rules are but you toss someone from the facility they usually cannot return for the remainder of the day. If I had a varsity game and the JV guys before me tell me they tossed someone from the stands and it turned out to be the HC I would be inclined to not allow him back in the facility. My reasoning would be that if it were NOT the HC that person would not be allowed back in, so why should things change because the HC decided to act like an A$$. Generally where I have worked SoCal, if someone is removed from the facility they cannot return for at least 24 hours.
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not what it sounds like
Nope. It was a coach performing exactly like a coach, only well-outside the bench area designated by game management and maybe three rows up.
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Fans?....What fans?
They are GM's responsibility. I'm not going to get involved unless they do something to disrupt the game - at that point I'll ask GM to take care of it, and stop the game if necessary while they do so. In my experience, GM is almost always on top of these situations and dealing with it long before we would ever have to get involved. As to the situation described, if the VC coach is simply in the stands and not on or in the immediate area of the team bench(i.e. row behind if bench is first row of the bleachers), they're a fan and are GM's responsibility. I'm not going to get involved unless they do something to disrupt the game. If the opposing coach has an issue with someone in the stands "coaching", they need to take it up with GM, or through their AD with the state association. Unless/until the state association tells us otherwise, it's not our responsibility. Just my $0.02.......
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We have one school in our area where the varsity coach and JV coach sit on the end of the bench during the sophomore game. They often say something to the officials during that game. This is very bush-league. The JV coach got a T for his efforts one game. When I was coaching varsity ball, I had more important things to do than that! I was more concerned about how they were playing the game and how they were being coached.
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Summer of 2012 I was attending a college referee camp using local HS teams. On the last night it was time to go get my free lunch provided by the camp at a local restaurant. I went out and I was hot and tired. I checked my mirror saw nothing and started to back out slowly. He did the same and we bumped rear bumpers. His 70's small Toyota rusted rear fender took no damage but my brand new Altima took some damage. Instead of staying put I pulled back into space and got out and talked to him. He said he had to get to a game and was leaving the scene. I asked for him phone number and name. Called Campus police to get a report. Since its private property without clear liability all I could get him to do was pay for half the damage.
I knew I would be at his school sooner or later. The first time I was there I came early to watch the Soph game. And I watch the VC coach and get on the two referees. At the end of the half one referee missed a kick by the visiting team and he then called it off the home team. VC was so upset he walked up to this official and he was leaving and said... that is a bull**** call. The referee failed to T him up. I think he knew he was the VC. That got under my skin. They finish their game and I have the JV game. My blood pressure is rising because again he is coaching and not really on me. From what I remember reading you cant have coaches coaching from off the bench. So I go tell the JVC that his VC needs to stop coaching from off the bench or there will be a technical foul called. Its only my third year so I am trying to find my boundaries for any possible issue. And before I went to tell the JVC I told the VC it was permitted to coach the kids from the fan section. Both blew me off and I had such a physical tight game I just decided to focus on other things. I asked a D1 official to come early to his BV game and he had this wisdom to impart. Let me coach the kids until the visiting (opposing coach) makes a stink. Then ask the coach to come sit on the bench if he wants to be involved with the game. Other than that ignore his remarks and treat him as a fan. If you are getting distracted treat him as a fan and have site management take care of it. In my 1k games in 3 years I have only had to warn a few fans to settle down if they wanted to stay and watch the game. They were all wreck ball. Never let a fan get to me in a HS game. This is not a typical fan. I expect the coach to behave better. Clearly that is a wrong expectation. Here I wanted to get suggestions from you Vets how to handle and when to use the rule book to put him in place when I am having enough trouble that i NEED the book. I visit again this Tuesday. I have been working on relaxing, enjoying myself and being more loose. I have the Soph game and he is coaching again. No big deal the opposing coach is behaving and doing great and hasnt noticed. Then one of his kids goes to the basket. Light contact going up. Havent been calling it all game. Loose ball jump ball and a time out called by visitors. He starts to go nuts for about 4-8 seconds how that was a foul. I ignore him yet it bothers me and wanted to bring this up again. So I can learn and deal with it. I have had coaches coach and get on us as referees. One early in the season yelled at me sarcastically "Nice mechanics" as I reported a foul on his team. Then came down with his JVC and coached his kids. Started doing little remarks at me. I want something brilliant or being told to just ignore the butt wipes when they start this behavior. This same D1 referee told me he had come early to a game and saw this behavior to a JV crew. Told his Varsity crew about it and because the BV coach had been so disrespectful to the JV crew they didnt give this BV coach an inch in his game. I would appreciate any more advice and apologize for my lack of information earlier. Forgot how much you guys like details to give your great advice.
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Not that we WANT great detail, but from your post it sounded like he assaulted you.
Either way you have those that are directly involved with the game and everyone else. If they are not involved with the game (IE. varsity coach sitting in the stands coaching) who cares. Parents do this all the time. If I have to address a fan's behavior it's usually to have them removed (done twice in 10 years). Other than that I just focus on my areas of responsibility and move one. Anything that seems fishy I would let my assignor know and seek direction from there.
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I think the best advice has already been given...if he is coaching his kids, I don't care. If he is being an a$$ to me, my partners, or the other team, then Game Management will be dealing with him. Let them handle it.
Around here, we often do doubleheaders. Either work the Frosh game or the JV game before the V game.Had a Frosh boys game this year where the Visting Coach didn't like an over-and-back call my P made. He yelled out "That's why you are a 5:30 ref" (referring to game time) and was shocked when I stuck him with a T. Then the Varsity Coach starts in on us from the doorway area. I simply turned to the Game Management/security guy and told him that the gentleman needed to leave. So he left...absolutely LOVED the expression on that Varsity Coach's face when we came out onto the court for warm-ups of his game! And he behaved himself. |
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I had an interesting twist on this last year. Working a Frosh/JV double header, I was greeted at the gym entrance by somebody from the host school who I understood to be game management. He showed me to my locker room and brought us water.
During the freshman game, he is sitting in the stands opposite the bench and is yelling at us about a call I made. I flat out told him I didn't want to hear from him and then told him he didn't want to cost his team (which I've since learned was not the correct way to handle it). He informs me he is just a fan, we have a disagreement and I decide to let it drop in lieu of a report to my chapter. As it turns out, he was the varsity coach, game management was somewhere else the entire time. That was essentially a no win situation. Then my partner goes into the lockerroom and kisses his behind after the game, making me look like the guy with a chip on my shoulder.
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I learned a long time ago not to address fans. Unless a fan (during a time when I can accommodate, usually between quarters before the inbounds) asks me a specific question nicely I don't acknowledge their existence.
I don't want to instruct them what may happen, what could happen, what I think of their behavior. I completely ignore them until they need to be removed. Then I get GM to do that. In both my instances the action was so egregious I gave the good ol' point to the fan and give the heave ho signal.
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