What Not to Do/Say!

[OHBBREF]

Originally Posted by Snaqwells

FWIW, I do disagree with OH about being an automatic; and in being a flagrant. He is putting the book away, though.

We'll have to agree to disagree on that - the T is automatic, I do not see anyway around that. Bringing out the book is going to cuase that T

We can talk about it- s/he can tell me I'm wrong, and if I am not sure, I'll check with my partner/s, (hopefully - if we were wrong they have already made the correction), if we agree that s/he is right we will change what is wrong, or fess up and move on. (Been there, done that, paid the fine). I'll even make an appointment to discuss it after the contest to discuss

I might relent on the One and Done - if there is a calm exchange, it might be possible to let them stay. I am trying for the kinder - gentler me this year.