Nasty coach

[eyezen]

Originally Posted by Back In The Saddle

Whose support? An independent contractor who was hired for about 90 minutes on a random Tuesday? And now that contractor, whom the AD views as little more than a necessary evil and a drain on the athletic budget, wants to advise the AD on personnel matters? The odds of this blowing up in the official's face are at least 50/50. Probably worse.

How would you react if the plumber you hired to fix the sink felt the need to call the next day to share his views on the way you raise your kids? How often do we joke about going into some obnoxious coach or fan's place workplace and giving our unqualified critique of how they do their work? It's only ever talked about because the sheer absurdity of the situation illustrates a point. But now you're actually suggesting that one of us actually do it!

Perhaps everybody should express their disapproval of this guy's behavior. But it's not appropriate for everybody to express it to the AD directly.

Also this.

[REFVA]

I go back to my earlier post, Where are the parents, if he is so demeaning, arogant, loud mouth, puts the girls down, I would never have anyone speak to my daughter that way. where are the parents. I agree with BITS. We are officials paid to do a service, how many coaches have we seen in our careers that do that all the time. If you want to make a comment to the AD, fine. If the Ad hasn't seen the behavior, it's becuase he/she knows a lot more about this coach than we do, as well as the parents do to. he may be the best coach next to slice bread we don't know. Whack him for the clip board make a comment and move on. IMO.

[REFVA]

During half-time is usually a good time to privately tell the coach that while you are not suggesting how to coach his team, his ferocity is becoming a bit of a distraction to refs and fans, alike.
MICK

Mick, as a fan, maybe I would talk to him and say that. As a ref, you are opening a can of worms that I think you may want to stay away from..You open yourself to a bunch of remarks. I think T'ing him up for the clipboard will shut him up.

[mick]

Originally Posted by mick

During half-time is usually a good time to privately tell the coach that while you are not suggesting how to coach his team, his ferocity is becoming a bit of a distraction to refs and fans, alike.

Originally Posted by REFVA

Mick, as a fan, maybe I would talk to him and say that. As a ref, you are opening a can of worms that I think you may want to stay away from..You open yourself to a bunch of remarks. I think T'ing him up for the clipboard will shut him up.

I noticed that.
I prefer to **warn** , then *whack*.

[Adam]

Originally Posted by mick

I noticed that.
I prefer to **warn** , then *whack*.

Maybe, but once the clipboard's thrown, it's too late.

[mick]

Originally Posted by Snaqwells

Maybe, but once the clipboard's thrown, it's too late.

Had to see it. How far did it go?. Did it hit a player? Was it due to an official call? Was it a knee-jerk reaction to a player?

Judge it. Your call and your game. I'll back you.
Few actions, for me, are as automatic to me as your thrown clipboard.

[Adam]

Originally Posted by mick

Had to see it. How far did it go?. Did it hit a player? Was it due to an official call? Was it a knee-jerk reaction to a player?

Judge it. Your call and your game. I'll back you.
Few actions, for me, are as automatic to me as your thrown clipboard.

I didn't say it was automatic. If it's a dropped clipboard, that's different. If I don't see him actually throw it, it's different. If he tries to throw it onto his chair, it's different. In a high school game, it's even a bit different.

MS games? My tolerance for airborne clipboards goes way down.

[Adam]

If (and that's a big if, she's friends with the AD, I have no problem talking to her as a friend about it. Sort of an "I have noticed" conversation. However, if you're not more than casual acquaintances, I'd let it go and only deal with it as a ref within the confines of the individual games.

Hit him for the clipboard, perhaps. If he swears, ring him up. Chances are, if you do it once, he'll be a bit more careful; especially if he doesn't have any assistants to step up in his absence.