"Stare at me all you want to..."

[Doug]

I used that expression once, and it got me in lots of trouble, got the coach even more worked up. "well, it is your fault that this is a mess, do something about it, don't swallow your whistle every time you get to MY side of the court!" So, I don't use that one anymore, I am going to try Mark's "coach, that's a coaching issue though"