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Old Thu Apr 12, 2007, 03:05pm
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I have found that the people that do not give a damn about getting better tell on themselves very quickly. When you talk to a guy and they have been around for 10 years and they do not work any HS ball that tells me all I need to know. Of course you can talk to them and I am not suggesting that you never talk to your partner. But I am saying I would be very careful to offer advice to people who just in their resume that they tell you make it clear they could give a damn. If the guy truly is a weekend warrior (does not work HS or any organized ball), then your little conversation is not going to change their mind overnight. You are still going to have to deal with how bad this person is and you will not make the one day experience much better.

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Old Thu Apr 12, 2007, 03:11pm
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If it's that bad, then you need to evaluate why you're there. If you know why you're there, you'll be able to figure out if you want to go back.
If you are going to work the games in the future, do your thing, call your area (to stay out of the habit of making long distance calls), work on your goals, go home, and kick the cat.
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Old Thu Apr 12, 2007, 03:20pm
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Snaqwells: If it's that bad, then you need to evaluate why you're there.

All of those incidents didn't take place on the same day, just a few examples of "bad partners" I have had since the season ended.

Thanks for the advice! I see you're a CO guy... Board 4 member?
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Old Thu Apr 12, 2007, 03:41pm
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We had our snow this morning; maybe an inch, but nothing stuck. My boss is out playing golf right now. For all its faults, this western slope sure knows how to do winter; nice and easy. A lot easier than Iowa, and even Denver.

Hey, think of it this way: you've got off-season basketball to officiate. That's not really the case out here.
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Old Thu Apr 12, 2007, 03:57pm
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Yeah, you're right at least I don't have to resort to doing baseball games. That's a good way to look at it the next time I get stuck with a weekend warrior.
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Old Thu Apr 12, 2007, 07:40pm
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I love helpful advice

When I work with a new partner I always tell them if they see something I need to work on, they should feel free to tell me. This may start some dialoge between the two of you. I am fairly new to basketball officiating and I always welcome any advice. I may not always use it but I always listen. I feel like we owe it to each other to help each other out on anything we can. Some of us need more help than others.
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