before we start (an equal opportunity post...)

[Rita C]

Having had similar situations in the past, my answer is simple.

The coach will be following my instructions since they were issued first. I will do my best to deliver this message in a way that salvages any precious male egos that may be offended.

Somebody will have been trying to show me up. It doesn't matter who. But I will stand my ground. It's been my experience that the whole game goes a whole lot better if I do.

Rita