Reno 911 ump attire

[UMP 64]

I show up to do 2 summer league (for HS players) week night games. These games are for ladies who did not play last season or who want to continue to work on their skills. I show up to work the late games of 8:00 & 9:30, and (I hate to admit it) one of our +15 year veterans, is in light blue silky shorts, a brown belt for his ball bag, and a white handle/blue bristel Rubbermaid "plate" brush. He has on his HS powder blue shirt that FP softball requires. This guy looks like a baffoon, and will probably be on a future Reno 911 episode about umpires. A real gay boy appearance. Sure it was 90 degrees and humid, but if you cannot take the heat, get out of the kitchen.
He comes off the field, and I proceed to tell him that he is a discrace to all umpires, and should stay home next week if he is not going to get with the program & dress properly! No one was around when I told him my opinion. I know I should have kept my mouth shut, but what a joke he is.
Any one else ever had a similar problem?