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Old Wed Jun 26, 2013, 11:09am
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I think it depends on the situation. We all probably had a "know it all" or "I'll handle it for you" partner when we were just starting. While what I told my children when they were growing up is true...It is less painful to learn from the mistakes of others than from your own mistakes...it is not always the best way to learn.

When I was considered one of the vets in our chapter I took the approach of letting a partner handle the situation in their own way...but always keeping the best interest of the crew in mind. If they gave a stop sign to a coach I always asked what was said or if it was just a sign. Then I would be more aware of what was said and reinforced the "warning" with the coach. A great many coaches test newer officials and I wanted to make sure they understoon that I was not new and they were on notice. Sometimes I told my partner to let me handle it from there...if it appeared he was "excitable"...sometime I gave them a chance to handle it, but never let it go too far.

A good official should be able to read his partner just like they read the coaches and players.

Just my opinion and approach.
What if they can't handle it? What if they they are now yelling at the veteran and over the top about the younger, inexperienced officials? I get the point you are trying to make, but that is only going to go so far. And coaches often do not just yell at the guy they are upset with, they start making the rounds to get some satisfaction.

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Old Wed Jun 26, 2013, 11:36am
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What if they can't handle it? What if they they are now yelling at the veteran and over the top about the younger, inexperienced officials? I get the point you are trying to make, but that is only going to go so far. And coaches often do not just yell at the guy they are upset with, they start making the rounds to get some satisfaction.

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That is where "always keeping the best interest of the crew in mind" part comes in.

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Old Wed Jun 26, 2013, 11:50am
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That is where "always keeping the best interest of the crew in mind" part comes in.

DUH!!!!
Then what you said was very subjective when someone is being a "know it all" as you put it to come in takes charge.

So it sounds like you are outraged by something that someone else might not even be concerned with.

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