"Verbal Judo"

[#olderthanilook]

I ignore every single instance of "That's a travel!". Mainly because it's not a question. BUT, if an assistant is the one that's saying it repeatedly, I will use it as an opportunity for a quick bonding chat between me and he/she.

"Coach, help me out. I welcome your questions about specific situations and plays, but will not respond to comments or questions about our judgement from your bench personnel. OK?"

I've never had a HC look at me sideways when saying that and I ALWAYS get a yes or an affirmative head nod.

It's a great chance to adress the coach, be firm and clear up the issue.