Coach-Player misconduct: Get involved?

[JRutledge]

Originally Posted by Adam

I have to ask.

What does your church attendance or involvement have to do with jar's post?

And what does believing in God have to do with this issue?

Peace

[Adam]

Originally Posted by JRutledge

And what does believing in God have to do with this issue?

Peace

Not sure, you're the one who brought it in. So, what does it have to do with it?

[JRutledge]

Originally Posted by Adam

Not sure, you're the one who brought it in. So, what does it have to do with it?

I simply told a story about language. Not sure why it matters at this point. You guys are going to do what works for you and I will do the same. All this debating over what is appropriate or not is going to always vary. I see how different parents raise their kids, so some people obviously have different standards in those things and those things would involved language and the usage of certain language.

Peace

[Adam]

Originally Posted by JRutledge

I simply told a story about language. Not sure why it matters at this point. You guys are going to do what works for you and I will do the same. All this debating over what is appropriate or not is going to always vary. I see how different parents raise their kids, so some people obviously have different standards in those things and those things would involved language and the usage of certain language.

Peace

That doesn't mean we can't enforce community standards. Obviously, those standards are different between Chicago and, say, Salt Lake City, but some standards are more universal than others. "Fu@k" for example, is far more universally unacceptable than all but about a handful of other words.

[JRutledge]

Originally Posted by Adam

That doesn't mean we can't enforce community standards. Obviously, those standards are different between Chicago and, say, Salt Lake City, but some standards are more universal than others. "Fu@k" for example, is far more universally unacceptable than all but about a handful of other words.

I did not say what you can't do. If something goes too far in your mind penalize away.

And I live in a suburb west of Chicago, the standards are not the same there then what they are in the city of Chicago.

Peace

[just another ref]

During the game, standards of behavior, including language, are set by us.
We must decide what is inappropriate and unacceptable. If a parent complains about the use of God's name in vain, and the official responds to that parent in the way described above, I haven't heard anything more inappropriate than that. jmo

I'm thinking the lock on this thread is near.

[JRutledge]

Originally Posted by just another ref

During the game, standards of behavior, including language, are set by us.
We must decide what is inappropriate and unacceptable. If a parent complains about the use of God's name in vain, and the official responds to that parent in the way described above, I haven't heard anything more inappropriate than that. jmo

I'm thinking the lock on this thread is near.

Actually the conversation was a little longer than that and if that is inappropriate than that is more of the reason you and I often do not agree on things. You go to games dressed, that is inappropriate to me. It does not stop you from doing what you feel works right? So save the "We set the standard" holier-than-thou crap. As someone said earlier, we hear language in the huddle of football games all the time and no one makes a big deal out of it. We might tell the players to watch their language, but no one worth their salt goes around flagging every time we hear a bad word. If the reason for doing so is because others can hear, then OK and that makes since, but just say that is the standard. Just so you know the rules are basically the same between football and basketball when it comes to this rule and I have yet to see anyone give a T or flag someone in sport for something heard in a huddle in either sport.

Peace