Not playing by the rules

[bard]

My 2-cents, if a player is looking extremely frustrated or angry, I'm going to keep my eye on her until I'm confident she's at a point where she's not going to do something that warrants a T. Hopefully that won't look like staring down, but I can see where a misperception might come in.

Personally, I have no problem with the last second timeout or "stalling," even if the game is decided. You've got some additional time to coach and teach your kids. Use it. That's why you're paid the big bucks.