Good luck or not?

[Adam]

"Don't forget to complete the customer service survey you'll be getting in the mail in two to three weeks."

[mbyron]

Originally Posted by Snaqwells

"Don't forget to complete the customer service survey you'll be getting in the mail in two to three weeks."

You don't take one last opportunity to remind them not to hand check?

[Adam]

Originally Posted by mbyron

You don't take one last opportunity to remind them not to hand check?

I do that right before I toss the ball, if I'm the R.

If I'm the U, then I add it right before the survey reminder, after the R asks if I have anything to add.

[Freddy]

"Okay, tonight we're going to play the blue line all the way around (I mention that because for the boys' game following the end walls and the fourth row of the bleachers will be out of bounds). Play defense with your feet. Which one of you is the speaking captain? Do any of your players have asthma? Do any of your players were contacts? I live just down the road, but don't worry, I'll be neutral tonight. And girls, don't hang on the rim after you dunk."

[bainsey]

"Question anything you like, as long as you're civil about it. Let's have some fun."

[jophyal]

i remind them that is their game and we are there to let them run... lets go.

[GoodwillRef]

Originally Posted by bainsey

"Question anything you like, as long as you're civil about it. Let's have some fun."

Question anything you like...not saying that!

[BEAREF]

I tell them to remember that it is a game so enjoy the opportunity to have fun and that win or lose the sun will come up tomorrow

[Adam]

Originally Posted by BEAREF

I tell them to remember that it is a game so enjoy the opportunity to have fun and that win or lose the sun will come up tomorrow

Do you break into song?

[reffish]

I have added to captain's meeting, in addition to the coach's meeting, that I do not want to hear complaining, just questions about any about calls or non-calls. This seems to keep the useless chatter away or down. Oh and be nice a la Roadhouse. Heard that from camp in AZ. Works great.

[JRutledge]

I think many here worry waaaaaaayyyyyyy tooooooo much about what others think of them. We are human beings first. If someone wants to make an issue out of that kind of interaction, this is their paranoid problem.

And for shaking kids hands, why not shake their hand? They are showing sportsmanship like we claim they are supposed to do. We are not adversaries; we are playing a role in a game. What is the big deal? And when kids have seen you over and over and over again, I am not going to treat them like I do not know them. In my case I might see the same kid in a college game and they will remember me. I care about these kids as people, not just some player that I will never see again. I take my job as an official very seriously, but I am a human first and foremost before everything.

Peace

[zm1283]

Originally Posted by Freddy

"Okay, tonight we're going to play the blue line all the way around (I mention that because for the boys' game following the end walls and the fourth row of the bleachers will be out of bounds). Play defense with your feet. Which one of you is the speaking captain? Do any of your players have asthma? Do any of your players were contacts? I live just down the road, but don't worry, I'll be neutral tonight. And girls, don't hang on the rim after you dunk."

Unfortunately I hear this a lot when I'm the U.

[RobbyinTN]

After I ask if there are any questions (usually never are) I simply say "OK, let's have a good clean game tonight" and leave it at that.

I avoid wishing any of them good luck or anything.

[BillyMac]

Originally Posted by Freddy

"Do any of your players were contacts?"

I had forgotten about that one.

Someone should come with a list of things not to say in a pregame captains/coaches meeting. Freddy's given us a good starting point.

[Amesman]

Originally Posted by BillyMac

I had forgotten about that one.

Someone should come with a list of things not to say in a pregame captains/coaches meeting. Freddy's given us a good starting point.

And, by the way coach, you're still single, right?