When coaches run things

[TheOracle]

Originally Posted by Snaqwells

Good grief! Dumbest two sentences so far this year.

How many top officials at any level have personality conflicts with several coaches? The answer is zero. To advance in officiating, you must have the confidence of, and be liked by, the coaches and schools.

It's not always fair. But life is not always fair.

The people who complain about coaches having power over them are the ones who will never get there.

[zebraman]

Originally Posted by TheOracle

How many top officials at any level have personality conflicts with several coaches? The answer is zero. To advance in officiating, you must have the confidence of, and be liked by, the coaches and schools.

It's not always fair. But life is not always fair.

The people who complain about coaches having power over them are the ones who will never get there.

Wow, this is really ignorant.

There are several top officials who have conflicts with coaches. That will happen in a competitive environment where coaches have a huge stake in the outcome. Officials aren't out there to be liked by coaches. We aren't paid to be their buddies. We are there to administer the game. If coaches have reasonable questions and we have time, we should give them a reasonable answer. Whether or not they "like us" is irrelevant. What coach likes an official who gives them a well-deseved technical foul? None. They like the officials who let them walk all over them. John Adams has stated that officials are spending far too much time with coaches. That is often true. Coaches love the refs who spend a bunch of time with them. Partners and most supervisors generally do not appreciate that.

[TheOracle]

Originally Posted by zebraman

Wow, this is really ignorant.

There are several top officials who have conflicts with coaches. That will happen in a competitive environment where coaches have a huge stake in the outcome. Officials aren't out there to be liked by coaches. We aren't paid to be their buddies. We are there to administer the game. If coaches have reasonable questions and we have time, we should give them a reasonable answer. Whether or not they "like us" is irrelevant. What coach likes an official who gives them a well-deseved technical foul? None. They like the officials who let them walk all over them. John Adams has stated that officials are spending far too much time with coaches. That is often true. Coaches love the refs who spend a bunch of time with them. Partners and most supervisors generally do not appreciate that.

That is a copout. Top officials have very few conflicts with coaches. In 28 years, I cannot think of any officials who have advanced or maintained a higher slot without having the coaches think very highly of them as officials and people. Sycophants are transparent almost always get exposed.

I had to T 3 coaches this year. I didn't want to give any. I worked post-season for all 3 of them because they all listed me. That's being liked and respected.

[zebraman]

Originally Posted by TheOracle

That is a copout. Top officials have very few conflicts with coaches. In 28 years, I cannot think of any officials who have advanced or maintained a higher slot without having the coaches think very highly of them as officials and people. Sycophants are transparent almost always get exposed.

I had to T 3 coaches this year. I didn't want to give any. I worked post-season for all 3 of them because they all listed me. That's being liked and respected.

There is a big difference between being respected and liked. When a coach sees an official walk into the gym and he thinks, "oh good, this guy is fair and he takes charge of the game," that is respect. When an official walks in and the coach thinks, "oh good, this guy will talk with me most of the game and listen to all my comments and criticisms," that is being liked. I don't want to be liked... I want to be respected.

[TheOracle]

Originally Posted by zebraman

There is a big difference between being respected and liked. When a coach sees an official walk into the gym and he thinks, "oh good, this guy is fair and he takes charge of the game," that is respect. When an official walks in and the coach thinks, "oh good, this guy will talk with me most of the game and listen to all my comments and criticisms," that is being liked. I don't want to be liked... I want to be respected.

I agree 100%. But I believe that it they do not like you, they won't respect you. Kind of the Machiavelli thing. I'd rather be loved than feared.

[zebraman]

I am starting to think that we are somewhat in agreement but getting hung up on words. :-)

However, I would never bounce the ball to the free throw shooter unless both of my outside officials were ready to officiate. I have seen too many cluster____s where the ball was put in play before all 3 officials were ready to go. I prefer to just stare at the Trail until he is done talking. Everyone in the gym figures out that the trail is holding up the game.

[tomegun]

Oracle, I think your way of thinking is partially what is wrong with basketball officiating.

Before you get upset, let me explain. I think there are many capable and young officials who do not get a shot because coaches are more comfortable with guys who have been around. The system should call for a coach to look at the play-calling of the official.

I have worked many places and some of them have stressed game management instead of keeping coaches happy. Donnee Gray always told us, "I can get you to stop calling technical fouls, but I can't get you to start." Another D2 assigner ran a league where coaches knew their behavior would get them T'd up. Sure, they could ask not to see an official at home, but that meant they would probably see that official on the road ASAP.

I started this post because I know the difference between a league, college or high school, where things are done right and a league where the coaches have too much power. I'm not talking about a situation where officials aren't communicating well, I'm talking about behavior that is going unchecked. Remember the quote one coach made to one of my partners about the other partner:

"Do you think you can get Joe to stop calling those p*&^y fouls."

Do you think that coach should have said that without receiving a T?

[Rich]

Originally Posted by TheOracle

I agree 100%. But I believe that it they do not like you, they won't respect you. Kind of the Machiavelli thing. I'd rather be loved than feared.

I'd rather not work those schools. There are a LOT of schools and leagues.

[tomegun]

Originally Posted by RichMSN

I'd rather not work those schools. There are a LOT of schools and leagues.

Yeah, the more I think about that statement, the dumber it sounds. I think it is absurd to think someone has to like me to respect me.

No matter how much we may think otherwise, coaches (generally) do not like officials.