dealing with coaches

[shishstripes]

I agree with OHBB, being able to succinctly use rule terminology and do it in a confident manner. Had a coach wanting a 3-second violation after a shot bounced off the rim and both teams were going for the ball near the side line away from both of us. "Coach there's no team control on a shot and until a member of his team gets control, there is no 3-second count." What else could he say?

Some coaches will take the explanation and the ones that don't and want to keep complaining start to fall on deaf ears. Know your rules and explain them with confidence.

[just another ref]

Originally Posted by shishstripes

I agree with OHBB, being able to succinctly use rule terminology and do it in a confident manner. Had a coach wanting a 3-second violation after a shot bounced off the rim and both teams were going for the ball near the side line away from both of us. "Coach there's no team control on a shot and until a member of his team gets control, there is no 3-second count." What else could he say?

Some coaches will take the explanation and the ones that don't and want to keep complaining start to fall on deaf ears. Know your rules and explain them with confidence.

And some coaches "accept" the explanation because they don't know what you just said. The year the team control rule went into effect, we had a foul by the offense during a throw-in.

Me: Blue, 14, push, one and one.

Coach: (sarcastically) So you're gonna shoot on the offensive foul?

Me: Coach, there is no team control during a throw-in.

His mouth opened..........and not another word came out. My idea at the time was that the phrase team control was foreign to him.

Originally Posted by just another ref

His mouth opened..........and not another word came out. My idea at the time was that the phrase team control was foreign to him.

Any phrase in the rule book is foreign to a coach.

[beachbum]

after reading all the posts, I think I can now sum up everyones thoughts in 4 words

BE
OPEN
FIRM
HONEST
FRIENDLY

anything else to add???

[Scrapper1]

Originally Posted by beachbum

I can now sum up everyones thoughts in 4 words

BE
OPEN
FIRM
HONEST
FRIENDLY

anything else to add???

I'm sure there's something I could add. . . What is it I'm looking for. . .?

[M&M Guy]

Originally Posted by Scrapper1

I'm sure there's something I could add. . . What is it I'm looking for. . .?

Mr. Annoying Math Guy. (4 words.)

[CoachP]

Originally Posted by M&M Guy

Mr. Annoying Math Guy. (4 words.)

Mr Annoying Binary Guy (100 words)

I think rules meetings are required in Michigan for coaches...not that it helps with people skills, but.......