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I'm always willing to hear feedback regarding things that happen with me so I'd like some input on this from 6th grade competitive league today.....I called a blocking foul in Q4 on a kid whose team was getting throttled pretty bad (so much for competitive today
![]() So thinking of my times on the board, I thought I'd asked him if he'd like to repeat what he just said to me....He didn't say anything so I asked him again...at this point he looks at me and says "BACK UP". I Td him for this comment.... Coach didn't like the block call or the T....said I initiated the T and shouldn't be in the kids face. My explanation to him about the situation was what I wrote above and I don't think a 12 year old kid or any player at the JRHS or HS level should be telling officials to "Back up"...as in "Get Outta My Face" as that is how I took it. Especially not when the official is tyring to explain to you the reason why you picked up the foul in an effort to help you understand it. I admit, I don't know exactly what was said and that in itself might have been enough for me that I COULD have left it alone. I do feel as though he was upset with my call and that's why he said whatever he said...In the end I hope that he'll use it as a learning experience that when you don't agree with the official there is a right way and a wrong way to ASK about the call. Better to have learned this in a blowout than when it was a close game...and that's from the player and the officials side of it.. |
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You probably did egg him on a bit. Ya got an upset, immature 6th grader and you kept asking him questions. Let it go and walk away. Let his coach handle it. Be the "bigger man." He'll learn his lesson another time, or not......JMO.
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If the Coach asks and you have time to explain, go ahead. If the player shakes his head, you administer the freethrows for the foul you already called. You don't owe that kid an explaination unless he asks politely or the Captain asks politely. The kid is pissed, back away and do YOUR job. If he gets demonstrative, then you deal with it.
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2) No need to ask twice if the kid would like to repeat anything. You made your point the first time, and it worked. He didn't say anything more until you went after him again. It does kinda sound like you baited the kid into the "T". Jmo. |
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#2...you are correct and I think that's why I've been stewing on this one... Thanks for the input Jurassic and the others who have responded already... EDIT: Snags...I was probably a couple feet away...I wasn't all up in his personal space or "in his face".... |
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When the kid didn't respond to your first query, you achieved your goal imo. Let it go. |
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I've had this question for some time. What is a "competitive 6th grade" game? Or 7th or 8th?
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While not your intent - you did a pretty good job of baiting him into that T. If he mumbled something and you didn't understand - and you asked him to repeat it and he told you he said you were an f'ing jerk - would you have let it pass? Kid mumbled something, realized his mistake, kept quiet while you pushed and he told you to back off. I think he was in his rights as you were forcing an issue. He learned - let it go. At least he didn't say get the flock out of my face!
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