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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 12:34pm
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For me, I don't need a coach/captain to ask me to watch anything.

Asking me to "watch for..." implies that it's happening and I'm not calling it.

No thanks.
No reponse at all to that player's statement ?
I'd say something, like "We haven't seen any contact."
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 12:38pm
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Asking me to "watch for..." implies that it's happening and I'm not calling it.
You can't see everything and having the team captain, or coach, share their view of what might be missed on the floor seems pretty valid. To say "watch for" is different than having them say "why don't you call...".
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 01:28pm
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No reponse at all to that player's statement ?
I'd say something, like "We haven't seen any contact."
I agree. As long as they are asking in an appropriate manner, they deserve an answer. I've used what Mick said on occasion or more often than not just an "OK" will do.
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 01:57pm
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more often than not just an "OK" will do.
I just say "Ok" and then promptly forget all about it.
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 02:03pm
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Nobody said they didn't deserve an answer.

I'll give an answer but I'm not going to be real concerned with what it is.

Quite honestly, the coach isn't looking for an answer.

I have no problem saying, "There's no such thing."
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 02:06pm
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You can't see everything and having the team captain, or coach, share their view of what might be missed on the floor seems pretty valid.
So you think it's "pretty valid" for coaches to make statements to you in an attempt to influence your decisions.
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 03:38pm
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So, you confused a player with a sincere question.

For me, I try to be more professional and less sophomoric.
Me too.

Answer the kid's question, don't get in a silly sematics discussion wth him.
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 03:53pm
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Agree with Junker; it's okay to acknowledge the concern quickly as long as they're polite about it. They might not have the term right, but they think the other team is getting away with contact. Just say okay and move on; or be like some guys I know who take it personally and call 'OTB' on the team that just complained....
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 03:53pm
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Don't Escalate

Although it may be easier said then done, it may be a better response to say that you didn't see the over-the-back. A comment that is derogitory may just escalate the whole issue.

Is the point, that you did not see a player gain an unfair advantage? Is it not possible that the coach saw it differently? Isn't the rest is terminology?
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 04:31pm
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If a coach asks you to "watch for over the back" or "watch for the reach" just look at him/her and ask "Why?"

See what kind of response you get.
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 04:38pm
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I have no problem saying, "There's no such thing."
That's what I do. It often gets me some not so kind looks by the lesser informed.
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 04:41pm
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How about, "I saw it. It was a great play."
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 06:12pm
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Me too.

Answer the kid's question, don't get in a silly sematics discussion wth him.
OMIGOD!!!! Dan tries to give a professoinal and less sophmoric answer?
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 08:19pm
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Answer the kid's question, don't get in a silly sematics discussion wth him.
That would be fine, Dan, if it were truly the kid's question, but you are well aware that it isn't. It's the coach's message for you in an attempt to get you to call something his way. The kid is just the middleman, and we both know that he could care less what answer you give him because he is only doing what his coach instructed him to do. Why not go directly answer the coach?
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Old Thu Mar 08, 2007, 08:52pm
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I suppose the correct answer might be "the coach's box is for coaching."
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