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Yeah, it sounds like the guy wasn't the strongest on the rules or professionalism. Maybe he was new, maybe there's a reason he's working middle school games. Maybe he was cranky because he was helping out with the games because no one else could make it. But, the kid shouldn't have thrown his hands up, that's a good T. The assistant coach shouldn't be involved in the converstation, that is also a good T. I certainly agree that the official made some questionable calls from your description, but coaches and players need to learn to overcome that.
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assistant middle school coach who calls officials "morons". You're crapping on an official for responding to unsporting behavior and ignoring completely the people who committed the unsporting acts in the first place. Think about it. |
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No - the official should not have verbally sparred with a fan.
No - the kid should not have gestured as he did. No - the assistant coach should not have been speaking to official. No - the head coach should not allowed the assistant to speak with the asst. No - the fan should not have been abrasive or unsporting in any way either. Seems to me like everyone played a part. Sometimes we all do/say things we later regret. Doesn't mean we don't deserve a second chance! If there is a pattern - perhaps there is a real problem. However, that should be up to the AD's or assignors who set the schedule, and to veteran officials observing games. If you were a fan - stay out of it.
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However, in response to your "typical fanboy" comment, I could enjoy the game alot more without refs that think that once they put on a striped shirt, everything that they do is above reproach. Just because I am a fan doesn't mean I don't know the rules or can't have an reasoned opinion on what proper behavior for a ref, for a coach or for a fan should entail.
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Do you think middle school games attract the best officials? If this guy is so bad do you think you're the first to notice? Do you think your opinion as a spectator adds to or detracts from what others already think about him? Enjoy your kid and his games. You aint gonna fix the entire planet.
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[QUOTE=Dan_ref]Calm down and be realistic, we're talking about middle school games here.
Do you think middle school games attract the best officials? As a newer ref who has done a great many 'middle school' games, I believe I have heard a heck of a lot of "constructive criticism" from the fans, players, coaches, and other refs this yr. I know this is where I need to start. I try to take it all in stride and seperate the whining from the constructive criticism as I realize I still have a lot to learn and I miss calls. It's tough though sometimes that's for sure! |
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No official, current or former would ever try to throw a fellow official under the bus for something as silly as what was described in the OP.Unless this guy was part of OS's crew, he's no more an official than my 2 year old son. That makes him either a liar or someone who was drummed out of the brotherhood for some nefarious action and he has an axe to grind. i wonder which it is.
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Maybe the official in question was slow on his 3-sec. call from the first shot....knowing the player was in the lane too long but not seeing an advantage to be gained until the shot was put up, but just slow getting air into his/her Fox and that delay allowed the rebounder to get off a quick shot.
Seems like a whole lotta "maybes" could be plugged in here as we guess at what the officials' knowledge/intentions might have been. You don't mention that the ref and his/her partner conferenced because the P might have disagreed with the 3-sec. call. I just can't imagine voicing support for a fan to complain to an AD about any referee of any sport. You say you were an official once, then you must know how difficult the job can be at times. The mistakes made may or may not have been honest ones, but the behavior of the asst coach is unacceptable at any level.
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I guess I just wanted to vent about this ref as I have literally watched over 200 7th and 8th grade level school and AAU styles games over the last 2 years and he struck me as one of, if not the, worst. 'Nuf said
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You've literally watched over 200 kiddie games over the last 2 years. I take back everything that I said. You are obviously extremely qualified to evaluate officials. |
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But, in the interest of fairness, I will attempt to answer his subsequent question. Refs who mess up will eventually receive the consequences for their actions. Refs gain a reputation among assignors, peers, and coaches. If the ref has a good reputation, that goes a long way in determining the types of games he/she will work. If a ref has a bad reputation, he/she could be "scratched" from certain schools and levels. As has been pointed out, this was a middle school game. While a few top notch refs will occasionally work that level, it is usually filled with the newbies, learning the game and working their way up. It is also filled with many who have had a great career, who just don't have the wheels to work the higher level games anymore. There are also a few who are just lousy refs, only out there for a paycheck, and don't really care. Those last guys will never advance because their reputation is bad. My local chapter has all of those guys I just described. Why are the bad rep guys still assigned games? Mainly because there is a shortage of refs everywhere and mainly because the lower level games need any ref they can find. Trust me, the assignor knows what type of official is on the game. He knows it is a newbie that might be a little shakey and not know the rules. He knows it is a ref with a bad reputation and a bad attitude. The assignor is just hoping the games will get done with no major problems. Go ahead, write your letter, "vent" to the assignor. You are not telling him anything new.
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No, officials showed not verbally spar with fans. For that matter fans shouldn't verbal spar with officials either, but what are you going to do?
From your description, it would appear that the 3 second call was in error. All of the T's seem deserved. An official making a mistake does not give anyone carte blanche to be unsportsmanlike. I don't see anything here particularly important other than a tired official at the end of a long day. |
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