Weird Play in AAU Game tonight

[ChrisSportsFan]

Originally Posted by jkjenning

Hey SeanFitzRef and daveg144, it would be better to think of these AAU coaches in a more respectful manner. When a coach steps up to fill a spot and does not have the qualifications you would like, just assume that the coach has a desire to see the kids compete; also assume that there were hours off the court that the coach has dedicated, without pay, to working with the kids; in contrast, we show up for an hour to call the game and get paid. Find some respect.

While I hear what you're saying and even agree to a point......
This respect you speak of, goes both ways.

[SeanFitzRef]

JKJennings,

I agree, to a point. The statement I made isn't an assumption I made, because I used to be an AAU coach before becoming an official. The respect that you speak of is given until proven otherwise. It's just that most AAU coaches prove otherwise. There is a reason I say 'most', because there are some very qualified gentlemen and women that work the sidelies on the AAU circuit, but they are overshadowed by the others. While I know that we have to act as professionally as possible at ALL times, most AAU coaches think they are coaching game 7 of the NBA Finals, and react accordingly. I tend to ignore most comments made by them due to their lack of knowledge of the rules; most of them played at some point (as did I), but never bothered to learn the true rules that they are bound to coach by. So what you get from these coaches is a lot of screaming, whining, and moaning which only makes them look foolish if they don't know the basic premise for their argument. The worst thing to do in this sitch is to argue back. No one will be able to determine which one is the fool.

FYI, a lot more AAU coaches are paid than are volunteers.

You are 100% right, Chris. Always a two way street.

[IREFU2]

Originally Posted by SeanFitzRef

JKJennings,

I agree, to a point. The statement I made isn't an assumption I made, because I used to be an AAU coach before becoming an official. The respect that you speak of is given until proven otherwise. It's just that most AAU coaches prove otherwise. There is a reason I say 'most', because there are some very qualified gentlemen and women that work the sidelies on the AAU circuit, but they are overshadowed by the others. While I know that we have to act as professionally as possible at ALL times, most AAU coaches think they are coaching game 7 of the NBA Finals, and react accordingly. I tend to ignore most comments made by them due to their lack of knowledge of the rules; most of them played at some point (as did I), but never bothered to learn the true rules that they are bound to coach by. So what you get from these coaches is a lot of screaming, whining, and moaning which only makes them look foolish if they don't know the basic premise for their argument. The worst thing to do in this sitch is to argue back. No one will be able to determine which one is the fool.

FYI, a lot more AAU coaches are paid than are volunteers.

You are 100% right, Chris. Always a two way street.

AAU is definately a place to get tough skin, which in turn will help you in the High School Season. It also teaches you patiences as well as how to display professionalism. All of these are good quailities of a good official.

[coachgbert]

As an AAU coach I can honestly tell you that there are all kinds of coaches, as there are all kinds of officials.

We had a semi-final game where the opposing coach was tossed after (I believe too much) ranting and raving for about the first 8 minutes of a 28 minute game. The coach went out on the floor after the ref. He was tossed, refused to leave, had to be escorted out and then waited in the parking lot for hours (for what reason we still do not know). His girls had his sense of sportsmanship. He contested the game and called my team a "rec" team who had no business playing the caliber of team that he has.

We won, 32-28, but here is the amazing part. After the game the officials told me that he too is an official and they had worked with him in the past. His other 7th grade team (we were playing his 8th grade girls) said they weren't surprised he was tossed as he gets at least one T per game in a tournament.

Other coaches are a joy to coach with and against. Most of the coaches I know aren't wrapped up in their egos so much that they lose sight of the fact that we are supposed to be teaching and helping these kids develop their skills. This coach yelled at the officials to stop telling his girls what they did wrong and just ref the game. The one official called a foul on his big girl under the basket for "clearing" out and swinging her elbows. She clonked one of my girls and they called it. The coach went ballistic. When the ref tried to explain that you can't wildly swing your elbows and hit anything in sight the coach argued that it was legal. According to his fans the refs did not make one call correctly all night, hence that is how we won. We didn't win on skill or scoring, but on bad officiating. Now I know the secret of winning. Imagine, it's been kept a secret from me for the past 7 years!

Anyway, just a perspective from a coach of a girls AAU team.

Coach G-bert.
(ps: We ended up winning the tournament and beating a team that has beat us the past five times we played them. Must have been some bad officiating that won us that game too, but nobody complained about it. )

[IREFU2]

Originally Posted by coachgbert

As an AAU coach I can honestly tell you that there are all kinds of coaches, as there are all kinds of officials.

We had a semi-final game where the opposing coach was tossed after (I believe too much) ranting and raving for about the first 8 minutes of a 28 minute game. The coach went out on the floor after the ref. He was tossed, refused to leave, had to be escorted out and then waited in the parking lot for hours (for what reason we still do not know). His girls had his sense of sportsmanship. He contested the game and called my team a "rec" team who had no business playing the caliber of team that he has.

We won, 32-28, but here is the amazing part. After the game the officials told me that he too is an official and they had worked with him in the past. His other 7th grade team (we were playing his 8th grade girls) said they weren't surprised he was tossed as he gets at least one T per game in a tournament.

Other coaches are a joy to coach with and against. Most of the coaches I know aren't wrapped up in their egos so much that they lose sight of the fact that we are supposed to be teaching and helping these kids develop their skills. This coach yelled at the officials to stop telling his girls what they did wrong and just ref the game. The one official called a foul on his big girl under the basket for "clearing" out and swinging her elbows. She clonked one of my girls and they called it. The coach went ballistic. When the ref tried to explain that you can't wildly swing your elbows and hit anything in sight the coach argued that it was legal. According to his fans the refs did not make one call correctly all night, hence that is how we won. We didn't win on skill or scoring, but on bad officiating. Now I know the secret of winning. Imagine, it's been kept a secret from me for the past 7 years!

Anyway, just a perspective from a coach of a girls AAU team.

Coach G-bert.
(ps: We ended up winning the tournament and beating a team that has beat us the past five times we played them. Must have been some bad officiating that won us that game too, but nobody complained about it. )

Thanks for your honesty and comments. I believe some coaches actually forget its for the kids. I had to toss a coach on Friday night and he kept on mouthing the whole way out of the gym. Even his kids were begging him to be quiet. Needless to say, he mouth caused his team to fall apart.

[Raymond]

Earlier this month I spent back-to-back weekends officiating the Boo Williams Invitational National girls & boys tournaments. Thirteen games in all, 6 boys games the first weekend and 7 girls games the next weekend. It was without a doubt the most pleasant experience I've had collectively dealing with coaches. In those 13 contests my crews only T'd up one (1) coach and one (1) player plus remind 2 assistants about their limited privileges. That's it, no long debates, no jumping up and down on the sideline, no yelling for fouls, travels, and 3-second's. Only had one coach directly question me on a call and I told him my partner had the best look on the court and he was happy with that answer. Had 2 kids question me on fouls I called and after I explained they both told me "good call". Had several losing coaches seek out my crews after games to shake our hands. Even had losing fans tell us "good game". Even had one losing coach come up to the crew and tell us that if his girls had worked as hard as we did that they would have won.

We had numerous coaches who jumped on their players for bailing out opponents with silly fouls in trapping situations, or for not moving their feet on defense, etc, etc.

Funniest moment was the very last game I officiated. My partner in the Slot made a very, very questionable block call on a fast break. I was the Lead and saw the whole play (it definitely was not a block). The Trail, who is best friends with the Slot, look at me and rolled his eyes. A teammate came and helped up the girl who was called for the block then looked at me and said "Sir, for future reference, what do we need to do to draw a charge in that situation?" All I could do was smile to myself and tell her she needed to ask my partner about the call.

It really was a joy interacting with the players, coaches, and fans those 2 weekends.

[IREFU2]

Originally Posted by BadNewsRef

Earlier this month I spent back-to-back weekends officiating the Boo Williams Invitational National girls & boys tournaments. Thirteen games in all, 6 boys games the first weekend and 7 girls games the next weekend. It was without a doubt the most pleasant experience I've had collectively dealing with coaches. In those 13 contests my crews only T'd up one (1) coach and one (1) player plus remind 2 assistants about their limited privileges. That's it, no long debates, no jumping up and down on the sideline, no yelling for fouls, travels, and 3-second's. Only had one coach directly question me on a call and I told him my partner had the best look on the court and he was happy with that answer. Had 2 kids question me on fouls I called and after I explained they both told me "good call". Had several losing coaches seek out my crews after games to shake our hands. Even had losing fans tell us "good game". Even had one losing coach come up to the crew and tell us that if his girls had worked as hard as we did that they would have won.

We had numerous coaches who jumped on their players for bailing out opponents with silly fouls in trapping situations, or for not moving their feet on defense, etc, etc.

Funniest moment was the very last game I officiated. My partner in the Slot made a very, very questionable block call on a fast break. I was the Lead and saw the whole play (it definitely was not a block). The Trail, who is best friends with the Slot, look at me and rolled his eyes. A teammate came and helped up the girl who was called for the block then looked at me and said "Sir, for future reference, what do we need to do to draw a charge in that situation?" All I could do was smile to myself and tell her she needed to ask my partner about the call.

It really was a joy interacting with the players, coaches, and fans those 2 weekends.

When I grow up, I want to be just like you!

[Raymond]

Originally Posted by IREFU2

When I grow up, I want to be just like you!

Rob,

the one play the coach questioned me on was one of your calls. Don't worry, I didn't sell you out

[Jurassic Referee]

Originally Posted by BadNewsRef

The Trail, who is best friends with the Slot, look at me and rolled his eyes.

Jmo, but I think that your trail needs a lesson in professionalism. That's an absolute no-no out on the court. Best friends or not, if someone on the bench or in the stands picked that gesture up, you've just hung the calling official out to dry.

[Raymond]

Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee

Jmo, but I think that your trail needs a lesson in professionalism. That's an absolute no-no out on the court. Best friends or not, if someone on the bench or in the stands picked that gesture up, you've just hung the calling official out to dry.

These 2 guys are nuts. It's was going back and forth between those 2 both games we did together.