cant seem to make anybody happy!!!!!!!

[chrs_schuster]

I'll start off with I,m a first year ref. thats the only good thing so far, I think I'm a good ref, but I still have alot to learn in which I know. BUT, I cant seem to make anybody happy with any call that I make or not make. If I make a call people *****, If I dont make a call people really *****. I find myself during a game hoping that the point guard or whoever has the ball pulls up for a jumpshot rather than drive the lane and I have to make the call one way or the other. What do I need to do? toughen up and let it roll off me and go on with the game. I try to get as much info from all the partners that I work with which helps a little. But sometimes there no help. Any advice would be helpful. thanks, chris