Also remember you are not there to make friends...
The only friend you will have in the gym is your partner. Since this is your first year, you will probably be working games where the players, coaches, and fans (parents) are not as skilled as higher levels. Just like them, you are working to get to the next level. You will hear very frustrated coaches trying to teach these kids something and they will just go out there and completely forget it.
Your co-official will probably be just a little more experienced than you. He just had to get through what you are dealing with now. Although not mentor material, it is a good place to start. During half time and after each game, let him know how you feel and ask for advice on positioning mechanics, and rules.
Work the hard wood as much as possible. Even youth games will help. And make sure you bring your A game to every one of them. Always be strong.
You are representing the commissioner to make sure the game is played as intended.
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Damain
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