Is this appreciated, or not (this is in line with "thats not my call"

[TigerBball]

I have been in situations where one partner sees something differently and they are talking about it longer than 30 seconds or so and I agree with the change they are discussing making, I will try to get their attention and indicate that I have no problem with the change that is going to go against me.

At my level, this type of thing happens a lot on jump balls when the scorebench did not track it properly. The refs will be thinking back on the game to determine whose ball it should be, and I am sure it is not ours, I will let them know this.

If I am sure it is mine, I will sit back and wait, I don't want to be pushy when it should be in my favor. 99% of the time they get it right. On that 1% of the time, I will tell them what I remember when they bring the coaches together. A couple times they have said, "oh yeah, forgot about that jump" and changed it.