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Old Fri Jun 03, 2011, 11:21am
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Thanks for the good advice...

Knew when I heard the paid professional I made a mistake...'that's enough' or just walk away, maybe a glaring look would've been more appropriate. I can not believe how rude and nasty men's modified leagues are towards us umpires.

PS: This pitcher was the player-coach and lead prayers before the game.
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Old Fri Jun 03, 2011, 12:00pm
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What you want to do there is after a close out call on the bases ends an inning, don't go anywhere near the pitcher's plate, no matter how dirty it is. Not important at that moment. The important thing is after making the call hustling to your between innings position. It just avoids the inevitable.
I agree with everything you said, but I do disagree with you on this one point. I'm not going to let a player or coach disrupt my routine just because we had a disagreement over a call. It can be seen as either me avoiding the player because I may have kicked the call, or I'm not brushing off the plate because I have a grudge. In a way, you're showing him up. By going ahead and brushing off the plate, you're telling the team that you're not going to let one call change how you do things, as well as that despite the disagreement, you're still going to treat him the same as any other pitcher. If the pitcher wants to discuss the play at this time, sorry, but it's too late, we're moving forward now.

Getting right back on the horse and proceeding with the game as normal is, in my opinion, the best thing you can do as the umpire.

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Knew when I heard the paid professional I made a mistake...'that's enough' or just walk away, maybe a glaring look would've been more appropriate. I can not believe how rude and nasty men's modified leagues are towards us umpires.

PS: This pitcher was the player-coach and lead prayers before the game.
I can totally believe it. I've been calling slow pitch for 18+ years, 14 of which were in "adult" leagues. It's amazing how petty some of those guys can be.
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I haven't decided if I should call it from the dugout or the outfield. Apparently, both have really great views!

Screw green, it ain't easy being blue!

I won't be coming here that much anymore. I might check in now and again.
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Old Fri Jun 03, 2011, 09:30pm
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[I][QUOTE=NCASAUmp;763152]I agree with everything you said, but I do disagree with you on this one point. I'm not going to let a player or coach disrupt my routine just because we had a disagreement over a call. It can be seen as either me avoiding the player because I may have kicked the call, or I'm not brushing off the plate because I have a grudge. In a way, you're showing him up. By going ahead and brushing off the plate, you're telling the team that you're not going to let one call change how you do things, as well as that despite the disagreement, you're still going to treat him the same as any other pitcher. If the pitcher wants to discuss the play at this time, sorry, but it's too late, we're moving forward now.
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We're looking at this from different perspectives. And as with so many other things that happen on the field, we all have our own ways of dealing with issues that we've found work for us and based on our experience and how we view the umpire player/coach relationship and that's fine...whatever works, whatever gets the job done.
Keeping in mind that we're talking men's leagues here....
The point that I was trying to make was the pitcher being involved or not involved in a hotly contested call on the bases end an inning had nothing to do with my choosing not to sweep the pitcher's plate. It's just to avoid any more discussion on a play that has already been argued seconds earlier.
Now, someone wants to make it a point on their way out to their defensive position to swing by my between innings spot in short RF and continue chirping, well now we've got a problem that's going dealt with very quickly.
And I never show a player or coach up....which is why I'll run one in a heartbeat if they do it to me. We can argue...lets just do it the right way.

Getting right back on the horse and proceeding with the game as normal is, in my opinion, the best thing you can do as the umpire.

Never a problem.
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Old Fri Jun 03, 2011, 10:16pm
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We're looking at this from different perspectives. And as with so many other things that happen on the field, we all have our own ways of dealing with issues that we've found work for us and based on our experience and how we view the umpire player/coach relationship and that's fine...whatever works, whatever gets the job done.
Keeping in mind that we're talking men's leagues here....
The point that I was trying to make was the pitcher being involved or not involved in a hotly contested call on the bases end an inning had nothing to do with my choosing not to sweep the pitcher's plate. It's just to avoid any more discussion on a play that has already been argued seconds earlier.
Now, someone wants to make it a point on their way out to their defensive position to swing by my between innings spot in short RF and continue chirping, well now we've got a problem that's going dealt with very quickly.
And I never show a player or coach up....which is why I'll run one in a heartbeat if they do it to me. We can argue...lets just do it the right way.
Which is why I never said you're wrong, I just said that I disagree.

No two umpires will have the exact same game management techniques. What works for me may not work for you, and vice versa.

Just wanted to toss out a different perspective on how I would handle a difficult player.
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I haven't decided if I should call it from the dugout or the outfield. Apparently, both have really great views!

Screw green, it ain't easy being blue!

I won't be coming here that much anymore. I might check in now and again.
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Old Fri Jun 03, 2011, 10:42pm
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Which is why I never said you're wrong, I just said that I disagree.

No two umpires will have the exact same game management techniques. What works for me may not work for you, and vice versa.

Just wanted to toss out a different perspective on how I would handle a difficult player.
Never said you did.
BTW...how's the move to FP coming along? hope it's going well. How's all the new gear working out?
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Old Fri Jun 03, 2011, 11:16pm
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Never said you did.
BTW...how's the move to FP coming along? hope it's going well. How's all the new gear working out?
Haven't called a game yet. As soon as I got all my gear, the local league started their post-season tournaments. That's the worst time to introduce a new umpire.

Fortunately, there's a huge FP tourney near me this weekend, so I might swing by for a while.

Funny thing about the gear, though. I got the plate shoes and put them on 3 times: once to try 'em on, twice to get my plate pants fitted properly. Before I even got a chance to call a game in them, the laces broke!

Fortunately, Honig's made it right and sent me new laces.
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I haven't decided if I should call it from the dugout or the outfield. Apparently, both have really great views!

Screw green, it ain't easy being blue!

I won't be coming here that much anymore. I might check in now and again.
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Old Sat Jun 04, 2011, 09:13am
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...Before I even got a chance to call a game in them, the laces broke!

Fortunately, Honig's made it right and sent me new laces.
They'll break, too. Stop by a good shoe store and get a couple pairs of good quality athletic shoe laces to keep in your bag.
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Haven't called a game yet. As soon as I got all my gear, the local league started their post-season tournaments. That's the worst time to introduce a new umpire.

Fortunately, there's a huge FP tourney near me this weekend, so I might swing by for a while.

Funny thing about the gear, though. I got the plate shoes and put them on 3 times: once to try 'em on, twice to get my plate pants fitted properly. Before I even got a chance to call a game in them, the laces broke!

Fortunately, Honig's made it right and sent me new laces.
I got some New Balance 450 a couple of years ago. A lace broke the second time I laced them up, but I sure do like these shoes. Is that what you got? Dave
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