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Originally Posted by Sonofanump

If he asks, you were only following the rules set forth and the player ejected himself from the game due to his conduct.

I've gotten to know Bill LeMonnier over the last few years and he says to announce ejections to the coach this way: "Coach, #12 has disqualified himself." It tells the story the way it actually happened and puts the responsibility on the player.