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Old Wed Jan 14, 2009, 01:49pm
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Old Wed Jan 14, 2009, 03:27pm
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Good grief!
One example will do. Then again you have to have an example. Accountability is really not your strong suit I see.

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Old Wed Jan 14, 2009, 03:47pm
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One example will do. Then again you have to have an example. Accountability is really not your strong suit I see.

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Accountability to whom, for what? Why should I be required to waste any of my time looking through all the garbage to repeat "stuff" that's already been written. Daggo66 chose to ask a stupid rehtorical question and I chose to answer it, directly, to the extent I felt it deserved.

I've stated several times before, when I refer to "you" it is often a collective you (as in pack of hyenas) and I'm not going to bother separating the barbs. "Lie down with dogs (hyenas) you'll get up with fleas"
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Accountability to whom, for what? Why should I be required to waste any of my time looking through all the garbage to repeat "stuff" that's already been written. Daggo66 chose to ask a stupid rehtorical question and I chose to answer it, directly, to the extent I felt it deserved.

I've stated several times before, when I refer to "you" it is often a collective you (as in pack of hyenas) and I'm not going to bother separating the barbs. "Lie down with dogs (hyenas) you'll get up with fleas"
You are accountable to the people here if you make statements (on here) that are incorrect. And if you choose not to answer questions after making very specific claims, then your credibility with people here goes in the toliet. And whether you realize it or not, if you ever try to talk about things in the future on this site that have nothing to do with the A-11, your comments will be under scrutiny by many people and dismissed by many people based on the fact you cannot answer a simple question. If you choose not to care that is your right, but do not expect people in the future to just give you a pass or accept your point of view.

Do what you want (I do) but then again I do not preach to the entire board to do anything I suggest. I am only talking to you about this issue.

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Old Wed Jan 14, 2009, 06:41pm
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Just one question - does anyone else see the hypocrisy in complaining about personal attacks in one post and then referring to posters as a pack of hyenas?
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Old Wed Jan 14, 2009, 08:05pm
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Just one question - does anyone else see the hypocrisy in complaining about personal attacks in one post and then referring to posters as a pack of hyenas?
Yes.

It must be fun for whoever evaluates his games and tells him what he needs to work on.
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Old Wed Jan 14, 2009, 08:21pm
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You are accountable to the people here if you make statements (on here) that are incorrect. And if you choose not to answer questions after making very specific claims, then your credibility with people here goes in the toliet.
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Perhaps you could remind me of what, "statements (on here) that are incorrect" I've made that you are referring to. While you're at it, what specific questions, that are within my power to answer, are you seeking guidance on? Questions about why other people may have chosen to do, or not do, something are obviously beyond the reach of my headlights. Perhaps you think your beams shine into the minds of others, sorry mine don't.

I presume that any statements I make here would be scrutinized by anyone who chooses to read them, isn't that what an exchange of perspectives is supposed to be all about. I'm not intending to preaching to anyone, I'm simply stating that certain comments and a certain tone is over the line, and all the empty threats, barking and posturing is not going to bring them back, or move the line.

Why would you think I, or anyone, should expect a pass or anyone should accept a point of view that doesn't merit acceptance based on it's own value? That's not the way things work, usually.

Waltjp, I'm not 100% sure, but I don't think you can actually render a personal attack against a hyena. Although hyenas might not fully understand or agree with that assessment.
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Old Wed Jan 14, 2009, 10:36pm
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Perhaps you could remind me of what, "statements (on here) that are incorrect" I've made that you are referring to. While you're at it, what specific questions, that are within my power to answer, are you seeking guidance on? Questions about why other people may have chosen to do, or not do, something are obviously beyond the reach of my headlights. Perhaps you think your beams shine into the minds of others, sorry mine don't.
This is the most accurate statement you have made the entire time have been here.

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I presume that any statements I make here would be scrutinized by anyone who chooses to read them, isn't that what an exchange of perspectives is supposed to be all about. I'm not intending to preaching to anyone, I'm simply stating that certain comments and a certain tone is over the line, and all the empty threats, barking and posturing is not going to bring them back, or move the line.
Yes you are preaching and that is why you have not shown one link, not one quote or one statement to show how people have been out of line. Just hyperbole from you because you do not like the fact that people can take another side or comment the way they do.

You are just about the only person that has introduced libel and slander in all these conversations, but cannot produce one fact that shows such activity.

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Why would you think I, or anyone, should expect a pass or anyone should accept a point of view that doesn't merit acceptance based on it's own value? That's not the way things work, usually.

Waltjp, I'm not 100% sure, but I don't think you can actually render a personal attack against a hyena. Although hyenas might not fully understand or agree with that assessment.
I have not asked you to accept one point of view of mine. Personally what you think about this issue is not my concern and never was and never will be. And the funny thing you have hardly read me talk about a point of view. I just want you to show one comment that someone said that was out of line or inappropriate or a lie. All you can do is get made because someone is telling the truth about someone's motives and someone's position.

Here are things you have not been able to dispute: Kurt is selling A-11 materials after claiming he was not. Kurt lied about approval with the NF for this offense when there was no such approval by the NF. Kurt has repeated these lies on this website or other websites. Kurt claims that officials all over the country approve of the offense. The last is not true just by the simple fact of what people are saying on this board alone.

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Old Thu Jan 15, 2009, 11:47am
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This is the most accurate statement you have made the entire time have been here.

I just want you to show one comment that someone said that was out of line or inappropriate or a lie.

Here are things you have not been able to dispute: Kurt is selling A-11 materials after claiming he was not. Kurt lied about approval with the NF for this offense when there was no such approval by the NF. Kurt has repeated these lies on this website or other websites. Kurt claims that officials all over the country approve of the offense. The last is not true just by the simple fact of what people are saying on this board alone.

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Now, you're just being silly. Do you really expect me to wallow through all the garbage that's been laid out to prove to you where the smell comes from. Not likely.

Let's look at these "sins" you're so positive and worked up about. "Kurt is selling A-11 materials after claiming he was not" What you decry as being so negative as "selling", might just as accurately be seen as distributing and recurring the cost of doing so. KB obviously believes (right or wrong) in his idea, and has every right to try and promote it and try and persuade others to accept and believe it.

"Kurt lied about approval with the NF for this offense when there was no such approval by the NF. Seems like a really insignificant semantics argument. Is suggesting a declaration that something is "not illegal" a whole lot different than being "approved", possibly a poor choice of words, but does it make ANY real difference?

"Kurt has repeated these lies on this website or other websites." Without a lot more specifics, I can't comment, other than to suggest very often the word "lie" is a really poor choice of words and an excessive exaggeration. You might consider other words like; mistake, exaggeration, misunderstanding, stretch or spin that don't include the connotation of a deliberate and intentional effor to deceive or mislead.

"Kurt claims that officials all over the country approve of the offense." After spending some time on this, and other forums, I might question whether there is ANYTHING "officials all over the country approve of". Would this observation be an exaggeration? Somewhat, but would it have misled any official, who has been awake for the past 2 years, doubtful, so what difference does it make (advantage/disadvantage)?

Be honest, you can stack these, and other, transgressions on top of each other and they pose the same hazard as tripping over a sheet of paper. The indisputable fact is there is nothing that has been stated, suggested or inferred that amounts to anything more than someone trying to promote an idea, he apparently believes in, perhaps excessively at times. So what.

It may very well be an idea that is wrong, an idea that may yet be judged not in the best interest of the game and ultimately prohibited. All that would prove is that it was a bad idea, a different assessment, a different perspective. The personal attacks, negative remarks about integrity and dishonesty, accusations of lying and deliberately trying to deceive, with claims that were so slanted no official on the planet could be misled by them, were all over blown, grossly exaggerated, progressively nasty and usually excessive.

Sorry Rut, but when the blood first hit the water, several of you lost control of your emotions and went in for the kill, which was totally unnecessary and added nothing to the discussion. All this huffing and puffing, demands for evidence and attempts at victimhood are not going to wipe the blood off your chin. Intentional or not, all this bullying, effort to coerce or intimidate and insistence on turning every minor detail, or poorly chosen phrase into it's worst imaginable conspiracy has simply gotten way out of hand. It is what it is, and how you deal with it is not going to change what it is.

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Old Thu Jan 15, 2009, 11:58am
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This is the most accurate statement you have made the entire time have been here.

I just want you to show one comment that someone said that was out of line or inappropriate or a lie.

Here are things you have not been able to dispute: Kurt is selling A-11 materials after claiming he was not. Kurt lied about approval with the NF for this offense when there was no such approval by the NF. Kurt has repeated these lies on this website or other websites. Kurt claims that officials all over the country approve of the offense. The last is not true just by the simple fact of what people are saying on this board alone.

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Now, you're just being silly. Do you really expect me to wallow through all the garbage that's been laid out to prove to you where the smell comes from. Not likely.

Let's look at these "sins" you're so positive and worked up about. "Kurt is selling A-11 materials after claiming he was not" What you decry as being so negative as "selling", might just as accurately be seen as distributing and recurring the cost of doing so. KB obviously believes (right or wrong) in his idea, and has every right to try and promote it and try and persuade others to accept and believe it.

"Kurt lied about approval with the NF for this offense when there was no such approval by the NF. Seems like a really insignificant semantics argument. Is suggesting a declaration that something is "not illegal" a whole lot different than being "approved", possibly a poor choice of words, but does it make ANY real difference?

"Kurt has repeated these lies on this website or other websites." Without a lot more specifics, I can't comment, other than to suggest very often the word "lie" is a really poor choice of words and a n excessive exaggeration. You might consider other words like; mistake, exaggeration, misunderstanding, stretch, spin that don't include the connotation of a deliberate and intentional effor to deceive or mislead.

"Kurt claims that officials all over the country approve of the offense." After spending some time on this, and other forums, I might question whether there is ANYTHING "officials all over the country approve of". Would this observation be an exaggeration? Yes, but would it have misled any official, who has been awake for the past 2 years, doubtful, so what difference does it make (advantage/disadvantage)?

Be honest, you can stack these, and other, transgressions on top of each other and they pose the same hazard as tripping over a sheet of paper. The indisputable fact is there is nothing that has been stated, suggested or inferred that amounts to anything more than someone trying to promote an idea, he apparently believes in.

It may very well be an idea that is wrong, an idea that may yet be judged not in the best interest of the game and ultimately prohibited. All that would prove is that it was a bad idea. The personal attacks, negative remarks about integrity and dishonesty, accusations of lying and deliberately trying to deceive, with assessments and claimsthat were so slanted no official on the planet could be misled by them, were all over blown, grossly exaggerated and excessive.

Sorry Rut, but when the blood first hit the water, several of you lost control of your emotions and went in for the kill, which was totally unnecessary and added nothing to the discussion. All this huffing and puffing and demands for evidence is not going to wipe the blood off your chin. Intentional or not, all this bullying, attempt to coerce or intimidate and insistence on turning every minor detail and phrase into it's worst imaginable conspiracy has simply gotten out of hand. It is what it is, and how you deal with it is not going to change what it is.
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