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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 02:29pm
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I tell them to remember that it is a game so enjoy the opportunity to have fun and that win or lose the sun will come up tomorrow
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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 02:41pm
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I tell them to remember that it is a game so enjoy the opportunity to have fun and that win or lose the sun will come up tomorrow
Do you break into song?
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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 02:42pm
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Do you break into song?
Nah, he can't hit the high C.
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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 04:27pm
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Bet yer bottom dollar!
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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 02:47pm
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I have added to captain's meeting, in addition to the coach's meeting, that I do not want to hear complaining, just questions about any about calls or non-calls. This seems to keep the useless chatter away or down. Oh and be nice a la Roadhouse. Heard that from camp in AZ. Works great.
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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 04:53pm
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I think many here worry waaaaaaayyyyyyy tooooooo much about what others think of them. We are human beings first. If someone wants to make an issue out of that kind of interaction, this is their paranoid problem.

And for shaking kids hands, why not shake their hand? They are showing sportsmanship like we claim they are supposed to do. We are not adversaries; we are playing a role in a game. What is the big deal? And when kids have seen you over and over and over again, I am not going to treat them like I do not know them. In my case I might see the same kid in a college game and they will remember me. I care about these kids as people, not just some player that I will never see again. I take my job as an official very seriously, but I am a human first and foremost before everything.

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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 05:05pm
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And for shaking kids hands, why not shake their hand? They are showing sportsmanship like we claim they are supposed to do. We are not adversaries; we are playing a role in a game. What is the big deal? And when kids have seen you over and over and over again, I am not going to treat them like I do not know them. In my case I might see the same kid in a college game and they will remember me. I care about these kids as people, not just some player that I will never see again. I take my job as an official very seriously, but I am a human first and foremost before everything.

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I dont see why so many guys hate doing it so much!
I've seen it avoided 3 different ways:

1. Stay opposite until intros are complete (theres a chance they will run 50 feet to give you some love anyway).

2. Aftet the Anthem plays Umpires run to the block & R goes opposite (the seperation may deter them from showing you some love).

3. Just go behind the table & begin stretching.

IMO none of the above promote good sportsmanship
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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 05:09pm
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I don't see anything particularly compelling either way with this. I don't seek it out, but I don't balk at it either. It's the same as the kids shaking my hand after the game.
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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 05:30pm
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I don't see anything particularly compelling either way with this. I don't seek it out, but I don't balk at it either. It's the same as the kids shaking my hand after the game.
I am not advocating going out of your way to shake hands. I am just wondering what is the big deal?

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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 05:38pm
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I am not advocating going out of your way to shake hands. I am just wondering what is the big deal?

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I wasn't responding to your post.
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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 05:39pm
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I wasn't responding to your post.
That is the funniest thing you have said in some time.

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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 06:33pm
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I don't see anything particularly compelling either way with this. I don't seek it out, but I don't balk at it either. It's the same as the kids shaking my hand after the game.
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I am not advocating going out of your way to shake hands. I am just wondering what is the big deal?
A few years ago, during a particularly bad influenza season, after all the hand shaking before the game, my partner took a bottle of hand sanitizer out of his jacket pocket and rubbed it all over his hands. Really.
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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 10:45pm
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A few years ago, during a particularly bad influenza season, after all the hand shaking before the game, my partner took a bottle of hand sanitizer out of his jacket pocket and rubbed it all over his hands. Really.
Did he do it each time after handling the ball as well?
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Old Wed Jan 19, 2011, 06:30pm
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The Bay State ???

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It's the same as the kids shaking my hand after the game.
Do you officiate in Massachusetts?
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i think many here worry waaaaaaayyyyyyy tooooooo much about what others think of them. We are human beings first. If someone wants to make an issue out of that kind of interaction, this is their paranoid problem.

And for shaking kids hands, why not shake their hand? They are showing sportsmanship like we claim they are supposed to do. We are not adversaries; we are playing a role in a game. What is the big deal? And when kids have seen you over and over and over again, i am not going to treat them like i do not know them. In my case i might see the same kid in a college game and they will remember me. I care about these kids as people, not just some player that i will never see again. I take my job as an official very seriously, but i am a human first and foremost before everything.

Peace
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