Ratting out a fellow ref?

[WhistlesAndStripes]

Originally Posted by BayStateRef

You are a spectator at the game. Why do you go to the locker room at halftime? If you want to talk about the play, wait until after the game, when you meet them for a drink.

In our association, we always let our fellow refs come in at halftime and after the games. All we say is, let the crew have their own discussion first, and then if you have anything to add or ask about, feel free. Generally, the crew takes a few minutes at halftime to discuss things, and then at some point, we will ask our fellow officials who were watching if they've seen anything else, or even ask their opinion about a specific play such as this situation.