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If he doesn't do it, you should. Never acceptable behavior from a coach, especially when it's tantamount to bullying the "new" kid. |
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As a "newer" official I appreciate the senior officials that do it "right". The ones who go over pre-games, look the part, and teach and mentor the rookies, etc. They are calm and helpful - not aloof and condescending, they are patient and instructive, don't roll their eyes or talk behind your back. They talk to you at timeouts and give constructive criticism and points to think about. As you say, "the art officiating" must be learned and experienced....and not all will get it. I have several senior refs I look up to and who mentor me. I hope after many years of experience I eventually turn out like one of the good ones.
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I'm in my third year and still appreciate a good senior official who is encouraging and not condescending. A couple weeks ago was involved in a 3-man subvarsity doubleheader with a senior official on the R. His manner was calm, decisive and encouraging to us less-experienced guys. He admitted when he blew a call and when we screwed up, he didn't chew us a new one, just calmly stated what it was and how we can do it better. I have great respect for him. There's been others, such as JV officials watching us freshman officials that totally lacked any tact when offering their "criticism". Being human, all I remember is their attitude rather than their advice.
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I still consider myself a young guy. I'm working in my 7th season now and have been pretty successful, but I never, ever forget what its like in your first couple seasons. I nearly wanted to quit several times. I'll be the first to admit, I'm not a good teacher, I get frustrated when someone doesn't "get it" as quickly as I did. But, I always try to encourage them with things they do right, and work in some "good job..buts" in there. One of my biggest pet peeves with veterans is they forget, the JV and 9th grade games ARE the Varsity games to new people. Don't cut corners with them, do the correct mechanics and teach them the RIGHT way.
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I think one of the biggest things an official can do is find a mentor. You need to find someone that works a level or two above what you currently work and use them as a sounding board and someone that can walk you through a lot of situations. Other than that, attend camps regularly, talk to veteran officials and most of all have fun. After all this is an activity that you should enjoy first and foremost. If it is not fun than you have to question why you are doing it.
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The senior official should take care of that coach in that situation, and tell his partner who kicked a call to focus on making the right calls. It is not terribly difficult for an experienced "R" with credibility to immediately stop a coach like that (including the T if necessary), while making sure the new guy doesn't lose confidence. The best ones take care of the coach without the others being very aware of it. However, after the game, feedback needs to be provided to make sure that he new guys learn from their mistakes (judgment and game awareness/management) and don't repeat them.
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When I see new officials work i tell them to get into the book and use the book terminology when dealing with coaches. If you know terminology, I feel it shows the coach you have an understanding and know the rules of the game and how they are applied in situations. Even at the high school level terminology will make a young official credible. Most high school coaches from my experience don't have an understanding of the rules like we do. If we use terminology, the coach will most likely agree because he or she doesn't understand. Some might understand what your saying, but i believe if we know the terminology and apply properly when communicating it makes a young official credible as well it builds the confidence of the official. I practice talking to coaches and using the terminology in the mirror. Seems crazy but it works. This is my opinion. I hope it helps. Tommy
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One thing I think a young official should realize in this "friendlier" age is this: you can't necessarily ask for advice and give all the conditions with which that advice is given. This is similar to a "Yeah but" official at camp - if you want to constantly contradict what someone is saying to you, or in this case give the parameters for delivery, the person might simply choose to not say anything.
I had to realize a long time ago that the people who often gave me some of the hardest to swallow advice were the ones to cared the most. The people who sugar-coated things did so without sincerity. Sure, a good word will make my chest swell temporarily, but the cold hard truth will help me get better. I always ask those who are more experienced than me to give me feedback without holding back. I also learned to ask all officials if they noticed anything in your game. This will open dialogue up with younger officials that may end up helping them more than me.
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I agree that you need to support your crew but telling him that a call was a good call when you do not believe it is lying. Is he going to make the same call the next game, because of what you said? You might have gotten him in to more trouble down the line. |
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Coach, By Rule......."
From TRef1: "When I see new officials work I tell them to get into the book and use the book terminology when dealing with coaches."
I agree. One of the best, and most experienced officials on our board, also a member of the training committee, tells young officials, that during the few times that they talk to coaches, to start off the statement with "Coach, by rule.....", and give a short answer. |
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