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10,000 BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Peace |
No, we did not lose the game. But it does rub me the wrong way when an official flatly refuses to calmly discuss a rule that does not appear to be a judgment call.
Accordingly, I was/am seeking advice from informed and thoughtful referees, which most on this site appear to be, save one OS. Most responses have been a great help, thank you. :D |
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Just curious. Is the coaching gig just a summer thing for you or are you also a high school coach in the regular season as well? |
A summer thing only.
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How do you "handle" a referee that misapplies a rule etc., during a game, especially if it is a circumstance that will repeat during the game. What can or should be done by a coach in that circumstance? Not was the rule right or wrong. Lets apply it to a real NFHS game and say an Official kicks (no pun intended)the new AP arrow rule by not switching on a defensive kick ball. As educated as I have become using this forum, I know he kicked it. So:
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Ans: Politely ask said referee if they would explain their interpretation of the call. Listen, don't interupt or argue, this would only get the hairs on the neck to stand upright. Once explanation is delivered (if referee decides they want to) Thank them and move on. If you still don't understand the interpretation then go to the League Admin. for further explanation. Once again Thank them for their time. All I can say is Arguing and complaining to an Official during a game will not get anyone anywhere. In the words of Dr Phil, "How has it worked for Ya up till now?" Perhaps my answer is a little tongue in cheek, but this would sure be a nice change. |
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I would say coaches need to learn how to handle themselves rather than handling an official. The minute I start to give and explanation to a coach and that coach starts to interrupt me that will not go over very well with me. I know I will give explanation to anyone that is rational or calm. The minute I start getting told what I do not know (and I take a rules test every year and the coach likely does not know the color of the rulebook) a coach will lose credibility with me. That lack of credibility means during the course of the game I will tune them out and I will not be as helpful to them when they are complaining. Most of the time coaches are complaining about judgment calls and issues with the rules are not that big of a deal. I just get turned off very quickly by some coach that obviously is not aware of the subtle of the rules. Peace |
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I would never in a million years pull out a rule book, as a coach, during a game to have a rules discussion. On the same token, I sureasheck hope an official wouldn't patronize me during a game by saying "read the rules coach". I have, and have passed the test. I also understand completely what you are saying about the coaches learning the rules and how to handle themselves. I'd be willing to bet my most of my Varsity girls would score higher on the test than our Varsity boys coach. Those kind of coaches do make "us good one's" look bad in the perception of officials. Just like there are the JMO's out there that make you guys look bad from the perception of us coaches. I luckily have never had it happen as of yet, but if it did happen as explained, I will burn part of my halftime to discuss with a willing crew. |
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Also halftime is not the time I want to talk to any coach. If you want to talk, wait until the game is going on and even then I am not going to go out of my way to discuss a situation. The rules allow you to call a timeout to talk to an official under the right circumstances. If a coach is not aware of that rule, that is tough. It is also known that I am a very accommodating official as it relates to coaches when appropriate. I think the problem is coaches need to know that we all are not the same and we all do not have the same tolerance levels (which is not a bad thing). If you want to approach an official, raising your voice is not the way to do it and interrupting them is not a way to get on anyone's good side. I had situation take place this summer that involved an unusual situation because it was a game during the summer. I had a coach trying to debate an issue that was not even relevant because the game was during the summer. I brought the two coaches together only to have one coach trying to debate the situation. He lost a lot of my good graces by his behavior. Peace |
I know for me, personally, whenever I do a league that has special rules (timing, backcourt defense, etc.) I'm flexible enough to know I might not have it right. I'm always willing to engage a coach to discuss the rule in question. In the end, however, I have to make a decision and stick with it. IOW, at some point the discussion needs to end (sooner rather than later), and I can't guarantee the coach is going to be able to convince. If the TD is right there, I'll ask him. If he's not, I'll make a decision on how I read the rule.
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:) I conveniently skipped over that part of your post! LOL Now I remember why I don't post here often... (1) It takes up too much time away from working and (2) I'm not right often enough! :) |
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