I probably should have

[Ref in PA]

Originally Posted by jsblanton

... Does he really think I am home cooking him? or is it just a heat of the moment comment. Either way his team lost and he didn't have a TECH (or me) at the end of the game to blame for the loss.

But he does blame you for the loss. You made the oob call on his player that prompted the comment in the first place. Don't think for a moment that this immature coach does not blame you. He does.

But his blaming you should not make a difference in how you feel or what you call. You know you made the right call. You know you did your best. You know you called a fair game.

So, you know how he feels and you know how you feel - then he makes the stupid comment of how it is "obvious" what is going on. That comment is "obvious" to me of what he is truly implying. I can't fault you for walking away. But as said earlier, I would ask the coach to clarify his statement. You are putting it back on him - to either back down or to step up and really earn his T.

Just don't delusion yourself into thinking he doesn't blame you, he does.