someone help me!!

[JRutledge]

Originally Posted by DC_Ref12

Perhaps you missed this part of my post?

This was a general statement. It said this without any consideration of your post.

Originally Posted by DC_Ref12

I agree with the overall message of your post. However, I think you might have looked past my overall message.

I'm okay with criticism. I'm okay with asking for clarification. What I find disrespectful, oftentimes, is not WHAT is being said or asked, but the WAY it is being said or asked.

Once again, much of what I said was not in a direct response to everything you said. I am talking in generalities of this site and other places where officials decide to come. This place is very tame compared to other places that have been on the web. So if the things said on this thread are offensive, I really hate to see how some of you new guys would respond on some other sites that really get personal and call more names.

If you have a problem with what people are saying, that is not going to change because you get upset about it or come here and complain. I guess I am a person that tends to worry about those things that I can control. I cannot control what people say on the World Wide Web or any website at any time. I can choose who I listen to or who I think has a valid point. I also take into account the experience of the people, where they live, what level they work and over all history of their postings. I guess over the time I have been here I learned that very early. I got over it really quickly how I was treated, because nothing said here ever affected me when all was said and done. This why I keep saying how a disagreement is not going to affect my schedule because at the end of the day I have already proved what I can do to the right people. Just because someone takes you on with an issue does not make them rude or in the wrong.

Peace