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I didn't say I would quit over a postgame like what you described. I did say the postgame that made me think about it was terrible. He didn't let up and told me the same thing over and over and told me to suck it up. And he snapped at me on the court. (Totally out of the blue. I had no idea something was wrong.) You don't think that was unprofessional? I did. And told him so later. And got an apology. But maybe that's one of the things missing this year: Postgames like you describe. Maybe I need to listen and see. I know that's how it used to be and I felt more a part of it. Maybe that's one of the things missing this season. But it's all more than just being professional. It also needs to be fun. Maybe I'm just using you all as a sounding board to find it. Even though I think you are misreading me, your words are helping find something. I know what I'm feeling and I know what I'm saying. But I find it interesting what all you all are hearing. It's giving me some good insight. Rita |
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Also the incident you described had little or nothing to do with having a pre-game or post game. That was more likely a guy being a jerk and unprofessional. But this was not the justification of your post. If it was, you should have said something else. I read exactly what you said and it was not very clear if this was part of your angst. Quote:
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Does anyone besides me realize that the tag "big dog" is ridiculous? What does someone have to be or do to be a "big dog."
Rita, this just isn't something where you are going to have a lot of what you want. The only relation to a dog I can think of is when people say that a trained dog is happier. An experienced official is happier IMO. Knowing what you are doing makes it easier to do it. Sometimes it pains me to say anything to younger officials because they aren't as receptive as they should be IMO. It is a waste of breath and meanwhile the game suffers because a smaller and smaller percentage of officials are actually working hard to get better. That is just my opinion.
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Snaq, I don't want this to sound too harsh, but I want to put is as plain as possible.
You want to have more relaxing games? Get better. That is the cure to heal many things as officials. I'm in the same boat for the level I want to achieve so I'm not excluding myself.
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![]() You're right. The most relaxing game I had was an easy game to do, so my skill level was more than adequate for the occasion. That's what made it relaxing. Here's the thing. I don't want more of these games, per se. It was not the sort of game that is going to make me better as an official. It was nice to have, but I don't really want a lot of them.
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I love how people expect others to read their minds but get mad when others do not understand their point. I guess we were supposed to know that this situation was the same as an official going off on you (which you did not talk about at all in your first 2 or 3 posts) on the court in a previous incident.
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Wow, talk about uptight. I guess we're to that point in the season.
![]() I had one of those games (two actually, it was a double-header) recently too, Rita. I've actually had a really good season, but it was definitely fun to have a game where things were just fun and easy. It was a girls varsity at a little private school. The other team had been on the bus for three hours to get there. Everybody was just happy to be playing. The ball wasn't very good, but the kids played hard and had fun and the coaches were relaxed and just did their thing. I was with a partner who's about the same level as I am. We drove down together and enjoyed chatting the whole way. Before the first game we did rock-paper-scissors to determine who would toss. Between games we chatted with some of the teachers from the school (who knew that in the middle of Utah there was a prep school with kids from 32 countries?). Afterward we showered in lovely warm water (never a given even at bigger schools) and headed home. What a great night!
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