NJ CYO FINALS EJECTION HELP

[PAT THE REF]

Hey everyone.... Had a situation today that is really on my mind and I need some criticism and or support for my decision.

Sectional NJ CYO 7-8 Boys 3rd and 4th playoff championship gameÂ…

A – Green…8 players strong, no height B – White…10 players strong, all height

My situation is a building one so here it goes (sorry about the long threadÂ…)

1st Quarter –
Green is down by 10; coach is yapping all quarter about travels, fouls, keeps on screaming “shot, AND ONE!!!) And no foul was called… So, my partner and I mostly ignore it since we didn’t want to eject or penalize a team for their coach’s behavior. We keep on telling the coach, (HEY REF did you see that foul?) – that wasn’t a foul coach… etc…

2nd Quarter –
Sloppy playing both teams, shooting double bonusÂ… No incidentsÂ… Green down by 8

3rd Quarter –
Green is down by 6; A1 is running up court parallel to B1, and A1 runs into “traffic” and falls down… Really no call, since no one had the ball, no one had possession since they were all moving so I and my partner let it go… Were talking about four players who basically just bumped into each other… No one falls down; no one looks hurt they all just play on… (Keep in mind this was not a washout then keep moving, this was just bumping)

A1 is down on the court (in front of his bench) and the coach screams “that sure looked like a foul to me, didn’t it to you?) At this point I’m just ignoring the coach… and A1 turns and says “sure did, this ref is blind, he has no clue what he’s doing out here… Unbelievable!!! This guy is Unbelievable!!!”……TWEET got A1 for “T” and B shoots 2 (makes none)

Later onÂ…

A1 is playing and walking to the bench for a substitution… I’m across the court at the free throw line extended on the sideline ready to inbound the ball and A1 walks back onto the court and says “Ref, YOU SHOULD JUST DIE, I HOPE YOU DIE”… TWEET got him again… B shoots 2 – makes 1… then the debate is how the A coach says I can’t “T” his player since he’s not on the court… etc…

Then the coach starts with his bickering (and I quote)… “what is this your first time?” Do you even know how to blow a whistle? Your ridiculous… your unbelievable… Instead of whacking the coach, I told him – that’s ENOUGH COACH… and play went on…

4th Quarter –
Green down by 20; I find out that A1 is now back on the court after being DQ’ed… The other coach lets it go and we continue… This coach didn’t know about 2 “T’s” he sits…

It’s just been bothering me all night (game was at 2)… I wouldn’t of changed anything but I don’t know… I guess I should have gotten the coach first but he was alone and again – this was the semi-final (3rd/4th place game) so I didn’t want to “take the ball out of anyones hands”…

End of game - Coach comes up to me (with A1) and asks what did he say... Told him... Your unbeli. where did you learn to ref? etc... Then my partner jumps in and says "Well did you say he should die" - coach goes - NOT THE POINT! "Thanks for loosing us the game!"

Any comments?