Flagrant fouls

[pizanno]

I might suggest informing the coach as well. If too hot of a situation, maybe non-calling official can inform.

In which case, I would also add:

Make sure your partner knows what you have before you go to the table, so she/he can prepare the administering of the next play. Come together and talk through what you have, what's next, FTs or not, etc.

It always helps me in these situations that are often emotional and can invite a mistake.