4-15-4-B: help request

[Kansas Ref]

I know everyone on this Forum understand the specific details of the violation cited in this rule [4-15-4-B] and call such violations when they occur; however, in the event of a ball handler using several consecutive "extra-ordinarily high" dribbles {imagine that the ball bounces above the player's shoulder} that does NOT involve a 'coming to rest' action then theoretically this should be a simple 'play on' episode, no?
Yet, whenever this high dribble occurs I have sometimes seen my partner(s) calling a "carry" [and of course the unlearned fans will always yell carrying and sometimes you can see them stand up in their seats and demonstrate a bona fide "carrying the ball" demonstration as they voice their displeasure when I don't call this a violation--which ironically (and humorously) their demonstrative action does not match the actual dribble that occurred]. Additionally, I have seen my partners sometimes succumb and [mistakenly] call a "carrying" violation here.
If any of you have dealt with this or a similar scenario, how do you deal with the issue of partners who call this ghost violation?